misty
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Yes, it is always adviseable to tell the truth! To lie about a baby is a HUGE deal... I would not do it! The longer you wait to tell him, the more hurt he is going to be. Eventually, he will find out about your lie, and it will make it difficult for him to trust you about anything. That will lead to relationship problems that can grow and grow!! |
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what does your heart tell you to do? why wouldn't you tell him the truth? if he is your boyfriend would you lie to him? that's the same thing as cheating on him in my book, little girl. in fact just the fact that you had to ask the question in the first place means he deserves better than you. |
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queensassey
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Don't be one of those chicks who traps her a man. Get one fair and square. Be a real woman. You are obviously scared that he doesn't want you anymore. If you think that now, just imagine what he'll want when he finds out you're a con. |
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Sheila
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Yes, lies in relationships are not a good thing. He will eventually find out and have a very hard time trusting you in the future. |
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julesl68
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Nahh..just keep letting him think you're pregnant. Wouldn't that be fun? You can, like, go buy all these cute maternity clothes, get a big strap-on pillow to make your stomach look fat, etc. tee hee tee hee.. Oh wait...he'd probably notice that when you're naked. Scratch that...YES. Golly gee...you should tell him the truth. |
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collie
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please do the right thing ,go ahead and tell him the truth, as a man i know how it feels , which ever way you look at it, whether he wants the baby or otherwise, tension is created so help him and yourself reveal the truth to him now |
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ken s
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yes tell him the truth |
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Ebony Queen
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Ummm, I would. Eventually he will find out. |
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tantiemeg
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Yes. He's going to find out eventually, isn't he? I promise it is better for him to learn it from you now rather than later. |
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Kendra S
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why does he think you are pregnant, tell him the truth |
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Sugarshots
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Why does he think your pregnant? If your playing a game with him, you'd do well to say it was a false alarm (you can test positive, without being pregnant) and not do it again. He may start to look at you as a walking child-support trap. |
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colleen82_84
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whats the differance? does he treat you better because he thinks your prego? if so you need a new man |
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jdog33
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YES, dont be manipulative |
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jeremiah
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y would u not the u should hurry up and tell hin now the quicker the better because if u dont he will not trust u no more |
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Sahara
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be happy your not.... you should be married before you have children plus you sound too immature to have a child |
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Melissa
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Why lie? He will find out eventually. |
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Avery
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yes
he won't like it that you lied to him but its better than him finding out later
honesty is one of hte key things in a relationship and i'd deff tell him if you want him to totally trust you |
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Angel
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yea you cant make him think u r when ur not, afraid hes gonna leave or ? |
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starry-eyed
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of course you should... unless you like lies and drama? |
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marion r
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yeah duh what else are you gonna do i'm not trying to be rude but come on he is your boyfriend if you can't be honest with him he isn't for you |
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anonymous
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yeah tell him the truth. it will only hurt your relationship to hide something like this. |
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non existance
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don't lie, you are simply manipulating his emotions. |
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slick_3501
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yes
honesty is the best policy |
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GirlyGirl
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Yeah tell him the truth... would you want your bf to tell you he got another girl pregnant.. if it wasn't true?? prolly not. So think about his feelings. |
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Mista-J
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yes tel him the truth.. |
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Bored
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Yes. What reason would you possibly have for pretending you're pregnant! It would be simply cruel to withold such information |
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mcdermond3
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of course you should tell him. there is no good to come from keeping him believing in the lie. |
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OLD SPIT
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my god! you need to ask? what a sad situation. you should give him a break, that is, a breakujp and let him find somebody a little less devious. wow! and gee whiz! |
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LARGE MARGE
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You had better, YES! If you keep the truth from him, sooner or later he will wonder why you aren't showing, then you will have a worse time fessing up to him then. Best to tell him NOW.
Wonder who voted EVERYONE a thumbs down?? |
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bashnick
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Yeah. He's gonna figure it out eventually...like when you don't show and a baby never appears. |
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feistycharley
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Yes! Oh, God! Why in the world would you keep something like that from him? If he was excited, then you'd better tell him now because otherwise it will be harder the longer you wait. If he was freaked out, then tell him because it's unfair.
I do not understand why some women think it's such a flippant thing to hold over a man's head... like when April Fool's Day rolls around, and everyone tells their man that they're pregnant. It's just unethical and cruel. |
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