jason c
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buy him a medicene |
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Kimchi
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Your poor dad.
IF it seems SEVERE or FATAL- try raising money, go around your neighborhood with flyers of what happened and try to get as much support as possible! Remember to pray for your dad and talk to him as much as possible! God bless you and your father. |
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giggly33
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Just stay hopeful and prayerful. My dad was killed by a drunk driver so he went suddenly. All I can tell you is to stay positive NO MATTER WHAT! |
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Shellie S
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jump your but in the car and go be with your mother. NOW |
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** i Am hiS giRL **
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um...sorry to hear it. send lots of flowers and pray to whatever god you worship. |
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helpertoall
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i wouldnt worry to much. he will probably be just fine. good luck hope he'll be fine! |
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Wanna-Be-Mommy
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I am so sorry!
Personally, I would feed the dog and try and get over to the hospital. It will make you feel a little bit better, knowing that you are there with your dad.
Also, I suggest that you pray. You and your family will be in my prayers. |
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c h
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pray |
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kitKat
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Pray for god to help you |
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Danielle P
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I would make sure you stay in touch with your mom. Your dog can always go without a meal, it's not going to be that important. It sounds more like she wants to distract you, and I understand why she would do it. Call the hospital and ask for patient information. Sometimes they will give you some basic information. They may also connect you to the emergency department where you can speak to your mom or dad, if you are having trouble getting ahold of them. Try not to stress out too much, and be patient. If the other driver was backing out, they were hopefully not going very fast. Your father may be roughed up a bit, but hopefully that's it. Make sure the family keeps you updated though, to relieve some of your fears. |
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Linzer
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I always find comfort in my religion. Maybe you might also? I always pray for peace of my mind and heart. That thy will be done. And it helps put things in prospective. |
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chibi_ash14
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I'm so sorry. Can you not go see him? Be calm and stay positive. just hope and pray for his safety. I would try and get a ride up there though to be there for him. |
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oxoxteeteexoxo
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dont worry, dont panic the right thing was to go to the emergency room, and im sure the docters will be able to fix and problems... im sorry, just dont panic |
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Cheryl B
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First of all, your mom probably doesn't know more than you do. Right now her first priority is your dad and doing what she can to help him. It's scary when your mom or dad gets hurt and you are out of the loop. Help your mom by doing what she asks of you and she will get in touch with you when she knows more. Remember, it takes time to run tests and get results, so don't freak if she doesn't call right away. Just keep your dad in your prayers and so will we. Good luck and best wishes. |
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monalisa
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just do whatever your mom told you to do.. when you're done and ur age are older enough... just go there to be with your dad... if not... just wait ...for the phone.
love... and be bless |
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mother_amethyst
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Calm down, and take some deep breaths.
If your dad was seriously injured, and your mom took him to the ER (instead of an ambulance), it's unlikely that he's badly hurt enough to die.
If he was that badly hurt, your mom would probably want you there at the hospital. And she wouldn't even be thinking about the dog.
It so very hard to be the one at home waiting at a time like this. Is there anyone who can come be with you? An aunt or neighbor or friend?
You are learning a hard lesson very young. That lesson is, sometimes there is NOTHING we can do. It's scary to feel so powerless. Some things in life we have no control over.
So the best thing you can do is:
1) think positive thoughts,
2) do the things your mom asked you to do,
3) keep taking deep breaths,
4) do what you would usually do. Do your homework, take your bath, eat some supper, if you have younger brothers and sisters help them out and take care of them. Keep your routine as normal as possible.
5) pray or send loving and healing thoughts to your dad and mom.
You'll be okay, it's really hard to wait but you can do it! |
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Doc B
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I'm sorry friend, but without actually being there to see him or knowing anything about his history, there is no way I could even guess as to what is going on.
Considering that driveways are fairly short and that normal people back out of them at a slow rate of speed, it would be logical to assume that the worst he could have is some broken bones. But again, a lot of this has to do with his past medical history.
I'll pray for your dad. |
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mmcchic23
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Just pray for him for now. He knows you love him, thats all that matters. I wish u the best |
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Diana D
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it depends how old your dad is. i feel really bad for you :((((((((((((((((. he most likely won't die though. just have faith, and prey for him every day...i am a religious person:P
God bless you and your family |
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mysticduder
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Try your best to stay calm, and supportive. If someone was backing up, they probably were not going too fast. If your dad is 90, there's a lot more of a chance of big problems then if your day is 50...but there's no way to know yet what his injuries are.. Stay calm brother! |
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hayley m
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firstly *hugs* and dont worry it will only make it seem worse than it is
secondly im sure that he will be fine if he was in serious danger then your mum would have been too worried about him to tell you to feed the dog
also doctors today can do amazing things so im sure he is in good hands
hope he gets better |
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Ferddaword
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Positive thinking, think that he will be alright and it'll happen. I'm thinkin he'll be ok right now. |
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darlene100568
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I hope I`m right on this one but if your dad was dieing I dont think your mom would even have the thoughts of telling you to feed the dogs.I know how you feel.My 2 year old is at the hospital right now with asthma and I had to stay home and take care of the other 5 kids and my elderly step dad.I would do anything to be at the hospital with my son.His dad took him so I`m sure he will be ok.Just on pins and needles not being there and not knowing what is going on with him. |
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Shibi
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The human body is much stronger and more resilient than you can imagine. I'm sure that the doctors will check his injuries and that he will be home with you very soon. Your mom just wants to make sure that you continue with the routine at home while she goes to be with your dad. Do not worry too much until you know more. He probably just took a spill or tumble from his bike. It sounds to me as though the best thing you can do now is to try keeping your spirits up and to be there for your dad and mom. (And, feed the dog, of course!). |
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David K
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Stay calm and think positive, Hospitals have excellent doctors so try not to worry . |
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Kelly
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Just calm down a bit. I'm pretty sure your dad will be fine. He might have a few broken bones, though. |
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ace
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First of all, relax. Try not to panic. If your father went to the emergency room then he is in good hands. If someone backed out and hit him chances are they weren't going very fast. So, he may be bruised and stiff and sore but hopefully nothing too traumatic. I know this can be a scary time for his loved ones but nothing would make this situation any worse than to have the loved ones panicking. Stay close to the phone if it makes you feel better as I am sure your mother will call you to keep you updated. I hope this helps and I hope your father is bike riding again, soon. |
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KK
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god bless you and your family and i'll keep you in my prayers |
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minalerie
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Stay by the phone, call your mom, and see if she can get you, or tell you what e-room he is in. Find someone to take you down there. I'm so sorry for this happening, I wish I could do something for you! |
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