I had sex last night, if he pulled out before he came its ok is'nt it some mates say it is and some say it not

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Trying to do the right thing	STI's- yes, if he is infected, you were exposed to anything he has. Some STDs, like herpes and HPV are transmitted through skin on skin contact, so they are a possibility. You could also be exposed to other STDs, like Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and even HIV. Even without ejaculation, bodily fluids were exchanged due to pre-ejaculate. Pregnancy too is a possibility. You can get pregnant even with "pulling out," although it is not likely. Once you have started your period, you are definitely physically old enough to get pregnant. All of the STIs and pregnancy are a definite possibility, although, if the boy was as young as you are, hopefully he hasn't been around much to get all those diseases. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mannon	First off I agree with everything else that has been said about pregnancy and STDs. Think about it- you basically are now at high risk to catch anything anyone - female or male- has who your "friend" had unprotected sex with. Gross, huh? You are below the "age of consent", which means the law does not consider you to be mature enough to make good decisions about sex. It means that you are not old enough yet to realize that the physical and emotional aftermath of intercourse- especially unprotected- can hurt, maim, or even kill. You are at high risk for STDs. When his penis first entered your vagina, you put yourself at risk. OTHER STDs: As far as STDs go- there are any number of them. You mentioned AIDS (long, horrid, leads to death): syphylis (early symptoms often missed, leads to severe neuological-brain- damage); gonhorrhea (cause of infertility and pelvic inflammatory disease-PID, which is a very serious infection of your female organs- horribly painful, leads to sterility, can cause an arthritis in men that causes some of their joints to fuse); clamydia (PID, sterility), hepatitis B and C (C often leads to liver cancer, an incurable and horrible way to die); haemophilus (PID and sterility), genital herpes or warts( most common cause of cervical cancer- a smelly, gross way to die, sterility) and no doubt others that aren't coming to mind at the moment. Oral sex isn't an "out", either. Most if not all of the STDs can be transmitted that way too. Please quit unprotected sex! (sex period, until you are older- say at _least_ 16) All of this involves consequences that can be lifelong. And, BTW, we are talking about diseases that are quite common, not rare- and they don't just happen to "other people" Bottom line - you are too young to understand the physical and emotional ramifications of sex- anyone your age is. Oh, and another BTW, condoms are no 100% guarentee either. They can break, slip..Long post, obviously you hit a nerve... Please take better care of yourself- andf show some self repect Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

groovymaude	Yes you can get pregnant. It is not legal You are 14.There is gonorreah, syphyllis, genital lice, herpes - did you have sex education lessons? I can not believe that I pay towards the education of people like you and your boyfriend - you obviously didn't learn anything! Yes there is every chance you may have an STI and yes you could be pregnant - un less you managed to take the morning after pill the way you were told to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

JOHN R	The "withdrawal" method of contraception is a myth. Sperm can be released before full ejaculation and if you have started menstruating then you are at risk of becoming pregnant. You are also at grave risk of contracting STD's or even HIV/AIDS. My best advice is to visit yout GP asap. Chlamydia is becoming increasingly common and could affect your future fertility. You are also behaving illegally, and your partner is guilty of statutory rape. Do not let this stop you visiting your doctor though - he/she is bound by patient confidentiality. Your health (and perhaps even your life) are more important. And don't be so silly in future. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Choose ME	Does your BF know he can go to prison for having sex with you??? Also I have been pulling out on my GF and now have a little daughter. If you are menstruating then you can conceive. Even a speckle of *** has got loads of feisty sperm in it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Irish Lass	IS illegal until your both 16 or over and yeah you can get preggers Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

deadly	From your question and some of your own answers you are too young to be having sex. Your 14 that means you BF has committed a criminal act and can go to prison. Just because he pulled out will not guarantee no sperm escaped and you may be pregnant. You need to get a test done and inform your parents. There is a possibility of sti's. You cannot have sex legally under 16 and protection is more important than anything. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

tripletaurus	Sounds as if you aren't from the USA "mates". So I can't say what the laws are where you are. But for your own sake and the sake of your future children, get some sex education. From your parents, school, Doctor or the library. Yes you most certainly can become pregnant and any contact with sexual organs can infect if one person has an STD. Oral sex is not safe either, so don't let them tell you it is, and yes Clinton it is sex. It is preferable that you not have sex again until you are several years older, it is imperative that you use protection even then. STD's can make you sterile, and if untreated, can kill. So please get some real information. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

cruisechloe	Honey, you're under age and your BF is 16. You can't get any kind of pills on your own yet. Your mom needs to give authorization for that. Pulling out doesn't guarantee that you won't get pregnant. If you've stared your period then you're fertile and if you had sex on one of the days you're ovulating then you could get pregnant. The pre-* on your BF's penis can alone do the trick, get you pregnant. The pre-* are the secretions that aid in lubrication. That may contain semen and one little sucker could swim up your vagina into the uterus and get you pregnant. Men believe that if they ejaculate outside of the vagina, then it's safe and pregnancy cannot occur, BUT that's far from the truth....the pre-*** has semen in it. How do you think virgins get pregnant even if they don't have intercourse? The penis touching the vagina during foreplay may be enough. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Diamond	girls as young as 12 have become pregnant. sex under 16 is illegal your boyfriend has committed a crime if you are not pregnant you could have caught a STD Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

inkedcalf	No it is not okay. The pre-*** has sperm and that could cause conception and a std if he had one. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Not Your Average 80s Baby	You can get pregnant through pre-* however its unlikely if the males has not ejaculated lately. Pre-* consists of fluid that cleans the uretha to prepare for ejaculation. So the only sperm that is in pre-*** is what is left over. However, even though you are likely not to be pregnant you could still contract a STD. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

mako	As long as the penis enter you, you will have a chance of getting pregnant. If the method that you have used is practical and can be considered fool-proof, they wouldn't have invented the condom, the pills and other contraceptives. Use a condom next time, instead of worrying about the consequences. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

StingRay	"He's 16 so it's legal." You really don't have a clue do You? There is every chance of STI's, are You itchy yet? Good luck with the baby, You can get mothering tips in the town centre from other teenage mothers who sit around smoking fags and talking about their illegitimate offspring. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

spoofred	omg girl no its not ok u can still get pregnant, precum is the same stuff that comes out when he ejaculates and can get u pregnant go and speak to ur mum or ur doctor quickly and yes there is a chance of sti u should always wear protection and the reason the legal age is 16 is so ur mature enough to know all of this, u really need to get some serious sex education and not listen to ur friends there was a girl in my class in school who had a child at 14 because of the same mistake u made and now her daughter is 10 and in my 10 year old neices class at school im just glad my sister was old enough to know what she was doing and had her daughter at 20 Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

S P	If you have no clue what pre *** is and if you can get stds or stis then you need not be having sex! Plain and simple. STOP HAVING IT UNTIL YOU HAVE A CLUE! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dr Frank	I am sorry but you appear to have had no sex education and have little or no knowledge of what you are doing. First your bf did commit an illegal act. You are considered below the age of consent, so it you have sex with someone it is considered that he effectively raped you, though his age and your agreement will act as mitigating circumstances. Second you can of course get pregnant, I believe the youngest recorded was a conception aged 12 years! Third, so called withdrawal method is a useless way to avoid pregnancy, its fail rate is as high as 30%. Forthly what about STDs? Sexually transmitted diseases, without using a condom you put yourself at risk of this at age14 years! Please go and get some advice either from your mum, your GP or your local family planning clinic. If you carry on like this, you will end up pregnant, assuming you are not already and possibly with an STD as well! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Corky	There is no safe sex and your boyfriend can get you pregnant and infected with STD even if he withdraws before ejaculation as there is some seamen present in his penis most of the time. Girls 10 years old can get pregnant, you have a lot of bad information and need to stop doing adult things until you can pay the consequences. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

SuZy-Q	Of course you can get pregnant. As long as you've started your period, and were dumb enough to have unprotected sex, there's always a chance. You've just increased your chances by being sexually active AND sexually ignorant. Let's just hope you don't reproduce. By the way, just because he's your boyfriend doesn't make it legal. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The Darkened Man	Not legal you are underage and cannot legally consent to sex, and yes you could get pregnant, for gods sake be more careful and don't listen to playground gossip. STD's (Sexually Transmitted diseases) Not good and are so easy to get and so difficult to get rid of Be careful gal, and wait till your older to have sex, much much older! Don't mean to patronise,but somethings need wait till you are more worldly aware! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Bellatrix	There can be sperm in pre- come. Yes, if you have your period you are capable of getting pregnant. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

$Sun King$	WoW! You might learn how to drive your car before you take it out on the freeway. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Matthew A	First off 14 is way to young to be having sex. Second if you didn;t use a condom then yes, there is risk of STD Third, if you have started your period you can get pregnant because before he finishes some comes out. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Shari	If you have started your period, yes you can get pregnant. And, it doesn't matter about the pulling out. Still can happen. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Allison	OH boy... there is a chance you could be pregnant if you have your period and because he may have had some pre ejaculation before hand that could have gotten into you... and there is a chance of STI's if you had sex with him and he has one... just because he didn't finish doesn't mean that his penis didn't touch your vagina, and there are many diseases that can be passed from skin to skin contact... for example warts, herpes... as long as he doesn't have these diseases you are fine, but do you know him well enough to know that he doesn't... also, please don't go by what your 14 year old friends say... most of the time, they don't know what they are talking about.... be more careful in the future... or better yet, don't have sex again until you become more educated about what can happen.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

drunkmagnet	some times there is pre-***. you risk pregnancy and sexual diseases with out a condom. your also underage Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mand P	Oh its never safe to have unprotected sex. Yes you could get pregnant. There is the small matter of pre come....and if you don't know what that is then perhaps you shouldn't be having sex!! And you can get sexually transmitted diseases. You need to get the morning after pill for a start. And from now on, be sensible and use a condom....every time!!! EDIT You are 14 so it is NOT legal.And your BF could be charged with sex with a minor at the very least, or indeed rape!!! You will have to see a GP or go to a chemist. It is NOT a form of contraceptive..it is for emergency use only and is NOT 100% eeffective......I got pregnant even after I used the Morning after pill..... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

midnite rambler	get some new mates Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dr. Deth	You are an idiot to be not using condoms. You ABSOLUTELY can get pregnant with the withdrawal method-there is still still pre-ejaculate fluid that carries sperm that can get in you. Why are you even having sex as an underage person anyway? You want to wind up as teenage welfare trailer trash? Your boyfriend could get arrested for statutory rape and be forever branded a sex offender. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

maggieclaich	Lets hope you're not pregnant, cause you're way too stupid to reproduce. Google pre-c u m moron. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Jen H	As long as you have started your periods you can become pregnant if you have unprotected sex. If you have unprotected sex, you also run the risk of STIs such as the ones you've mentioned - HIV and chlamydia - but also syphilis, herpes and gonorrhoea. You can get the morning after pill prescribed by your GP or by going to A&E, or you can buy it over the counter in a local pharmacy, but it costs around £20 if you do it that way. The morning after pill is NOT a form of contraception. If you intend to have sex on a regular basis, you should be responsible enough to use contraception, whether that is by going on the pill/injection/implant, or by using condoms. If you are having sex with a partner who has already had sex with someone else, you should use condoms until he has been checked at the local GUM clinic for any infections. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No