Unprotected sex with girlfriend?

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Blue	Or maybe she was just curious about the possible outcomes of unprotected sex. Women do that thing called research, unlike dudes. You may want to tell your friend birth control isnt 100% though. 2 months isnt long enough to stop using protection in my opinion. 2 years maybe, when any doubt of the other screwing around and picking up something is gone. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

katherine l	u need to tell him ASAP dont wait hurry up and tell him to get cheked out this isnt a game Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Canky Kisses	blood is thicker than worry.. id rather 4 u 2 b safe than sorry.. tell him plz be 4 it goes to another level.. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

miss maggot	you should tell definitly. she should be tested to see if she does have an std. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ps@yahoo	Sure its not you fella?Just think, think think the right things to do in situations prior to acting them out, its called common sense. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mr Pfeiffer	Keep it hush hush and never let them know that you were onto something...that way you dont get dropped in the sh*t Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sachi D	TELL HIM!! . STDs can really damage him. if you love yr cousin, then i think it would be the right thing to do. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

I miss Thailand!!!!	Ya I would tell him, you may be potentially savin his lil man from gross *ss herpies! He should also dump her because she obviously can't be honest with him. He should have been smart to begin with and used a condom like oyu suggested...he must be really young or just really stupid.... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

nancy botwin	yes u need to tell him..but then again she could of been doin a report for school...but u should privately ask her first...but using a condom does not protect against herpes...ur friend needs to get tested..fast.....good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Sarah	Tell him asap. Let him know gently and even though he will be mad for a while. if she really does hace herpes then he will be thankful in the end. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

niumel619	You already told him to have protected sex, unfortunately many young men have an invincibility complex when it comes to sex. You can keep telling him it is stupid to have sex when it isn't protected, but telling him you were snooping, is out of the question. You already warned him, now it is his choice as to whether he listens. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

wranglerdude16	I wouldn't say anything to him. If he's old enough to be making choices of having sex without a condom, then he's old enough to live with the consequences of his decisions. And anyway herpes and other STD aren't the end of the world, there are plenty of people with STDs that still have great relationships and a great sex life. AIDS is the only big concern because once you have that, there is no coming back. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

TheBeann	If there is a way to really drive it home without telling him, that would be best. However...if it were me, I would want to know. It's possible she was looking up information because she thought her bf/your cousin gave her something, not because she had it originally herself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Emzie	You have to think about it if the situation was switched. Would you want someone to tell you if they could possibly have herpies? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Peter S	tell him tell him tell him!!! seriously this mistake is made too often, the importance of STD's are overlooked. Your cousin should appreciate it a whole lot more, after all if it saves him getting an STD it can save his chances for future relationships or even to the extreme of saving his life. It's all about how you tell him, and prepare for him to be angry with you at first but you must take this for his sake. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Twilight	uh definately tell him HELLO why would you want your friend to haphazardly contract herpes people who **** without condoms are stupid. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Powertool	You have to tell him. It is his business and he needs to know to protect himself. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Graham Henry Bibby	Tell them its best. (sneaky devil) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

EGGHEAD:P	TELL HIM!!! he needs to no!!! if u really care about him u would tell him...and if the girl really cared about him she would tell him too!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kelisita	tell him, it may save him from something horrible, he will understand in the long run Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

<3 Italian_Pride <3	honestly, i wouldnt care if he was mad at me for life, if someone was trying to help me protect against a std, i would tlel them! do the right thing, 1 and 5 ppl have a STD!!! dont let him be a statistic! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Riley	let him know you came across it. if he gets mad thats just dumb cuz your tryin to help him out. and make sure you let him know thats what your doin. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

D	tell him the whole story. they both need to get checked Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

scottythecomic	Hmmm, maybe she was concerned that she could contracyt it from him or someone else? I'd tread lightly on this, my friend. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

[(DoRk)]	i don't know that is hard but my cousin was on birth control and now she is pregnant Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Wikipedia Brown	Normally I'm a "mind your own business" type of person but in this instance I think it's best if you tell him. If it's not too late you might be able to save him from something that will forever affect his life in a very negative way. If he gets angry then so be it but at least you'll know that you did the right thing and tried to help. Also, no one looks at pictures of that stuff unless they are worried they have something. It doesn't make for pleasant web browsing. I can't believe someone actually said here that she's researching this just because. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No