JESSA
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is there areason ur hurting urself.i started cutting myself when i was 12 when my father molested and i was raped @ age 15 to me the pain was so bad i would take anything to releive the pain of the trauma what got me through where ppl who had gone through what i went through didnt have to b the samething the point of this is nomatter how alone you feel there are other ppl who go through this everyday. |
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sephoramoon
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You need to see a professional. Maybe you have past issues that are making you act out? like abuse?
Talk to someone about it. Not your friends though, they will likely not understand.
Take care. |
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♫ღMeღ♫
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UR NOT STUPID... SOME PEEPS DO THAT... SEE A DOCTOR.. OR STOP CUTTING URSELF... |
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musicfreak
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YES IT IS BAD!!! dont do it!!!! u could die or get a really bad infection!!! do u know wat u should do??? STOP!!! see help or something!!!!! |
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lonepinesusan
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Hon,please seek some psychiatric help. That is a sign of what they call Borderline Personality.Therapy and meds may help, but find a doctor you trust and they should put you in touch with someone in mental health. Your primary MD may not know how bad this is,and so ask him for a referrel for a therapist. Best of luck. |
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Gods Girl
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I think th@ its not a good habit. I dont know if u can kill yourself by cutting which you probabaly can't but you can reaaly hurt yourself. I learned about why people cut themselves and I say itll probably be better to find another outlet of anger, depression, or whatevr ur feeling. The Bible says your body is a sanctuary, a gift, dont destroy it!! |
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Devi
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everyone who said this is stupid is someone who's never had the urge to do so themselves before and therefore they think there must be something wrong with it... you can't really change people's opinions on stuff like this. you have control of your own life. you should probably be asking yourself, or mentioning in the question -why- you do this. i went through a similar phase when i was your age, and it was just that.. a phase. if you're depressed about something or just life in general then take solice in the fact that you live in a world of people who all have varying views on life and that there is absolutely no real answer to how one should live it... don't let people who haven't walked a mile in your shoes control how you feel about anything.
and on the varying views on life thing, here's my opinion (take it for what it's worth). Life is very valuable and your body is the only vessel you have in this world. Your body is the ship and your mind is the captain and crew. You should definately direct your thoughts as to exactly what's making you want to destroy the ship and take it from there.. |
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'Barn
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From the information you have provided: I am sorry your friends opted to call you names (i.e. Stupid), vs. trying to offer help. Why are you cutting yourself? How can they help.
You've taken a good first step by recognizing this behavior as a signal that other things are going on (i.e., depression, etc). I strongly recommend you talk to your doctor about this and/or seek professional help. If you can't do that speak to a counselor or person at your school (adult) that you trust.
Good Luck to you. |
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mamasitav
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alot of people like to feel pain but its not very healthy, you said it yourself that its because your depressed so you need to find out whats bothering you and be careful who you tell about your problem bc alot of people wont understand and will judge you. |
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brianandamysmom
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Sounds to me like you are crying out for help. Cutting yourself is a sign of mental illness. I think that the best think you can do for yourself is to talk to someone you trust. A best friend, parent, teacher. I'm not sure of your age, just assuming that you are young. Please do this as soon as possible, please? Best of luck to you |
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justlaugh93
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You aren't stupid for doing it. It is a HUGE problem among teens! But it's not a good idea to do. It's addictive because when you cut yourself, it releases endorphins that make you feel good. But it's not! You just have to realise that you shouldn't do it. |
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shyra w
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sounds like you really need to talk to someone. Other than whom ever you're talking to. Yes it is stupid to cut yourself. (I'm not saying that you're studid)But it sounds like you're hurting on the inside. So if there's someone that you could talk to, like a school counciler,because you don't need people
If you're able to talk to your parents, that might help you also. |
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n p
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I had a friend who did this too, You need to talk with a therapist . Maybe the school at first if your parents don't know yet... |
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justme_248
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you need to see a couselor or a close friend
seriously, you need to tell someone because
this could pregress to actually killing yourself..
there is a reason behind it and a solution for it.
your life is more important than you may feel
right now and just know things always get better..
My sister went through the same problem and after
spending some time in a phsychiatric hospital she
was helped. Just please let someone know because
you dont really want to die or you would of gotten it over
with. your seeking help and as i cant really do anything
cause i dont know who you are you need to tell someone
who can. |
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xgasxchamberx
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I wouldn't use the word stupid. But it's incredibly dangerous. It's an addiction, just as severe as heroin and often times more dangerous. So please... get help. |
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Chuckles
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Tell your doctor you need to see someone about that, your friends wont understand you need to talk to someone who understands, i hope you get help with it, i used to have periods where i felt like doing things like that, you can get better and stop doing it, Take care. |
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Bobo
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Get professional help. NOW. If you're school-aged, go to your guidance counciler or an adult you trust. This is a serious problem, and you NEED GUIDANCE FROM A PROFFESIONAL! |
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Mia K
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my my hun!
How old are you?
Maybe its worth speaking to a family member or an adult you can trust!
Hun please please please try to stop! I truely understand life can be more than hard at times but like alot of others on here have said you will be lefted wuth scares, More importantly you need to speak to some1, even if you do it on the computer annoymously,
Do you have any1 you can trust to talk to or not?
OH AND FOR ALL YOU LOW LIFES WHO HAVE POSTED STUPID COMMENTS GO TO HELL! |
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Rakin H
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hmm....stop cuttting urself and tell ur parents and get mental help |
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moonunitpurple
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Don't hurt yourself anymore!
Please, tell your parents what you are doing and they will help you. |
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sweetiepie29jj
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Its not completely stupid. Its bad for you, ill agree. Its scary seeking help so the first thing to do is to sit down and think about why your cutting yourself? attention? to ease the pain? cause you like blood? Seriously figure out why your doing it. Once you've figured out why, then you can try to stop it. each reason has a different way of treatment. If you like the site of blood, maybe you should try to be a doctor. that way you see it naturally. If its attention, thats easy enough to get. If you're really trying to die from it, then its something more serious and would need treatment. If you Cant fix it on your own, then ask for help. The whole world thinks medication is a solution to everything. Its not. If you are able to beat it on your own, you'll have more confidence and you'll be able to deal with most serious issues that arise in your life and will be stronger for it. I used to cut and I stopped without meds. |
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lindsay lohan
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stop hurting yourself! your obviously having emotional issues and it may and probably is depression. talk to your mom and see a therapist and your doctor because you need some help and you should also know that a ton of other ppl are going through the same thing you are and they are getting help too. you are definatley not alone |
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Cassie
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hunny, i bet your a wonderful girl, try to answer it your self do u think that hurting yourself make anything any better |
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Bridget
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They shouldn't call u stupid. but it a very self destructive way of letting out anger or pain. Find something you love and somehow take out your feelings with that. Write instead of cutting. Yell into a pillow instead of cutting. Talk to someone you trust instead of cutting. Find SOME kind of alternative to cutting.
Good luck :] |
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I'm a fruitbooter... So what
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ok 1st stop it 2nd get some help with this fined some one to talk to |
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Mon_10
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Please tell your parents you need to see a counsellor NOW. Good luck.. |
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endlessdark16
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I agree, seek help for it. Or talk to someone who is mature enough to help you, like an adult. |
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vicious
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tell ur parents u are depressed and u need to talk to someone. a lot of teenagers go thru that. |
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ARSENAL FC 4 LIFE!!
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Get help girl quick |
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Flaming dinosaurs
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you should seek professional help |
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