mushrooman2000
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do you like playing russian roulette? cause thats what you are doing, and yes you will probably get herpes in the long run. and from what I understand it's painfull. |
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wildbutterflychick
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you could get it. Is she worth the risk? |
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cyresetaz69
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you can get the herpes at any time because not cure for, dint go to a relation like this is beater for her to be we some one they have herpes to. because she dint go to fell bad if you get the herpes from her... |
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pendragon
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By being 'safe', i assume you are referring to use of contraceptives. Although these are normally a pretty safe way of not getting an STD like herpes, it cannot be guaranteed. There is always a risk, even if you do take precautions. If you want to be completley sure, then do not sleep with her- but at the end of the day, its your call. Herpes can also be spread by general contact, so if your girlfriend has open sores, try not to accidentally touch them, and if you do, wash yor hands with soap and water.
For more info, try www.herpes.com as that has a lot of info.
Best of luck and hope this helps! |
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Uh-May-Zing
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It's a risk...but then again, there is a risk with anything you do in life....if you feel like she's worth the risk, then go for it...but remember, once you have it, you have it for LIFE. Anyone you date in the future will have a chance of getting it from you...Think about your future and make your choice. |
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Ari P
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well u could get it if u dont use a condom..... so use 1!!!!! |
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CE S
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Keep in mind that condoms are not even 100% safe from HIV let alone any other viruses. Your best bet is to abstain, as difficult as it sounds. I think in these times, there are always risks. |
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kittykitten
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Okay first off its not worth the risk to be with her secondly its a chance you can get it if you ain't careful and last but not least you may have it now there is no cure for it just because she don't have the symptoms don't mean she don't have it and just because she don't have an outbreak don't mean you cant catch the thing so be careful there |
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dynamite2006
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You gotta give the girl credit for telling you the truth. It is true there is a risk of transmission of the virus even if she isn't having an outbreak. That's where it will take you being smart and protecting yourself. See if she's taking any antiviral meds such as valtrex or zovirax, these help supress the virus and keep her outbreaks fewer. There are many couples out there that one partner has this virus and the other has not transmitted the virus. It's all about being safe. If you really like her, then go for it. Just be careful. Good luck!!! |
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One Sexy Jeep Girl
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not worth the risk. |
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ampzphd
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If you really like/love her .. Then it wont matter. That's what I think. |
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mizsinister
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she is right... but it is your choice, at least she told you... |
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Bobby h
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Not woth the chance man. if things dont work out what will you tell your true love? |
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Sadie
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IT'S NOT WORTH IT! You will probably get it at the course of your relationship. And the herpes virus isn't cured. You will have painful outbreaks for the rest of your life. I get cold sores on my face, and they're bad enough. I can't imagine them... other places. It's up to you but I would say go find another girl who isn't infected. There are plenty of them out there. To her credit though, at least she told you. |
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Z
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By "safe", I assume she means using a condom. Proper use of condom can certainly reduce the risk of acquiring herpes but it can't absolutely prevent it at all times.
Go and see your doctor and find out more information there. |
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LMS
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Ok no way is it worth the risk b/c even with a condom u still have skin to skin contact and you risk getting it even when she's not having an outbreak. I suggest she find somone who already has it so she don't keep spending anymore then we humans have already. Do u wanna deal with having this and having to tell people also? Its your choice but I sugggest you back off. |
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2strongfor2long
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Use protection and if she has any sores don't do anything until It goes away. Once you get it you can't get rid of it so be careful and it's up to you to be with her or not but she was honest so that is a plus. |
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holden
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It's a big risk. If you like her and she likes you, I'd at least be using a condom, and I guess I'd consult a doctor or a clinic to get the best advice. |
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