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 I have a girlfriend who has been neglecting me for the last 6 months.?
i have a girlfriend who has been neglecting me for the last 6 months. when she is around she makes it very clear that she is very happy being around me. then she doesnt call all week when she's ...


 Am I just being a regular teenager or am I bipolar or something?
I think I'm bipolar but I don't really have the guts to tell my mom. Here are some symptoms. Just wondering if I really am and how I should talk to my mom about it. At first I thought it ...


 IM NERVOUS AT READING OUT LOUD?
im in hoghschool at at least 2 teachers always go up and down rows and everytime the row gets closer to my turn my heart pounds like crazy and wen reading i stutter and lose breath and sound stupid ...


 Wow. I'm not sure where to start..?
Well, the last past couple of months I've noticed things about me. Usually I don't pay attention to myself and don't notice change, but this is really driving me crazy. So here lately I...


 WHY are you depressed?
Sometimes, I really can't believe that certain people are depressed. They have so much going for them. I feel that they are just depressed for pity's sake. So I'm challenging you: WHY ...


 How to deal with my boyfriend being down and drinking too much?
I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have a really close, loving relationship. However, the one issue we have is his drinking. He does not drink every day; but at a weekend he will ...


 Im under peer pressure can someone please please please please please help me!!!???
ok i have like a gizillion friends who get high all the time they are pressuring me to do it to..... should i do it i mean you cant be old and wise without being young and crazy and taking risks so ...


 Why is my memory getting worse now, when I'm only 17?
I'm only 17yrs old, and I used to be so good at school (mostly had A's)....that was when I was in Italy. Now that I'm here (since last year May) it's like I'm under a trauma. ...


 Help me Plz!?
I am 19, I am 4'10 and I've been in the army for just about a year and I have a really serious problem,... Everyday I get teased about my height. For a while I've put up with the name ...


 What is life?
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 Can people who are depressed still be positive ? :)?
Just wondering if it's posible for people who are depressed to see life in a positive way??...


 Can any one help me???
wats up wiv me i hate my job, i hate not being able to find a house to buy wiv my boyfriend, i am fed up wiv my driving lessons,i am dead snappy wats wrong i just dont feel my self
Additional D...


 I don't want to TRY anymore...please help!!?
I have a motivation problem. big time. I'm a senior in college and I have no motivation what so ever to try to do well. It's so unlike me. Last year, I was on the dean's list with a 4....


 I know that cannabis is affecting my work performance but I can't seem to stop.What should I do?
Also,when you give up smoking,how long does it take to show an improvement?...


 Am i crazy or is this how im suppose to feel??? please answer!!! i need help!?
yesterday was my 2nd day of highschool and im a freshman..I HATE IT!!! i dont know any1, i have no freinds and i cant do my homework becuz i cant open my locker!!! i cried myself to sleep all last ...


 How do you feel about anorexia and bulimia?
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 Will power !!! why am i lacking some of it,,,, how do i get it back to stop smoking?
15 years i have been smoking and tried to quit a hundred times but it drives me crazy .... i think its part of my personality by now and if i do quit forever this may phsycologically change my ...


 Why does it always rain on me?
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 If someone was going to commit suicide would they know?
is it possible say to wake up in the morning, go to work like normal - and then in the evening on the spur of the moment feel really bad and kill yourself without any warning sign? Is this possible ...


 I really want to be dead.?
O.k. so I'm bi-polar, but I just want to be dead. I 've felt this way for 20 years (since I was 9). Today I bought a whole bottle of sleeping pills. I want to use them, but I kinda don'...



tanglo02
Why do I always mess things up???
I am a smart and attractive 23 year old female. I graduated from college and have a good job. I do not drink or smoke. I am a honest good person. I just seem to always mess things up and make stupid mistakes. I think it is because I am such a perfectionist that I get nervous and do not think.

I recently called my new boyfriends sister's house this holiday and called my boyfriend the wrong name. They think I am cheating on him now.

I accidently sent the wrong document to a future employer and lost out on the job.

These are just two examples of my mistakes. I am afraid that there is something wrong with me.

How can I prevent these stupid mistakes in the future?
                     




NATIVE NEW YORKER
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THEY ARE NOT MISTAKE
THEY ARE SELF FULL FILLING PROPHECIES
YOU ARE AFRAID OF FAILURE AND EVEN
MORE AFRAID OF SUCCESS


iroc
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Absent-mindedness my have deeper roots than you think. Alzheimer's starts as young as twenty years of age.
you may be experiencing the start of something scary and way to frightening to even say out loud,..GET YOURSELF CHECKED OUT.


goldlust74
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maybe your scared of everything being perfect so when you see that things could turn out that way you unconsciously do something to prevent it happening.


A Wholesome Heart Loves C F
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nah, this question is too boring. may all mistakes fall upon you.


Smurfetta
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Make lists. And think before you act. Sounds like you are very distracted. Get focused.


funguy
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Try this, write every thing down that you want to do, then mark off whatever you already did......good luck


David
Teach your mind to focus better.
Do this;

Go to a gym store and buy a standard weightlifting curling bar.
Also, buy pairs of weight plates in as many sizes as you can afford. If you need to budget this, go every payday and buy another pair of plates. FORGET olympic or chrome plates, they are a waste of money.

Put some plates on the bar, put on the plate clips. Lie a wall clock with a sweep second hand on the floor in front of your bar and plates.

Pick up the bar and plates. Keep your elbows bent, your knees bent, and bend over a bit. WATCH the second hand on the clock. HOLD the weight for approximately 60 seconds.

The weight should feel HEAVY after 30 seconds, ie. your arms start shaking. If it feels heavy the instant you pick it up, too heavy, cut back on the weight plates.

What this does; when you keep your elbows, knees, and back BENT, your muscles are holding the weight, not your bones.

As the weight get's heavier, as the seconds tick by, and your muscles get more tired and more tired, your mind will quickly stop thinking about all the things in your head, and focus, very narrowly, on the clock and the seconds going by. ALL that will matter is the physical effort to hold THAT WEIGHT. Your brain will learn to FOCUS on one THING ONLY, with time, doing this brain and body exercise.

Do this every day. Once a week, add a little more weight to the bar. A bonus, your body will tighten up, get stronger, and your fears and worries will also go away.

In time, buy a power rack. You will then move to the next, and final level of achieving mental and physical success, beyond anything you ever dreamed of.


sandy l
well if you are as smart as you say and it would seem you are.
then i think you need some better means of reducing or controlling your anxiety . as well you might not really be feeling all that great about yourself and although you appear ok to most even to yourself often you might be real suffering from some depression that has as a symtom some kinds of self descrutive behaviour.
i would go with the first one first and really work on relaxation maybe meditation taught to by a professional . all of that along with just doing things you do enjoy . do all of that and really really work of changing the thoughts you have about yourself . thought stopping might be good for you as i think you might over think things and in the end get so messed up by the inner dialog that you mess up when its time to do what your suppose to do.
this is all based on this little bit you told me so this could well be the most useless answer on yahoo.
regardless i hope you have a good new year.


kat_luvr2003
why don't you stop and think before you do something,take more time to do them


1m@ h3@rT Br3@k3r
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No. I do these stupid things too. Nobodys perfect honey.


ssgtmommy01
Dear listen there is nothing wrong with you. I suggest that you relax and realize that you are HUMAN and mistakes are going to happen!

Second I suggest that you somewhat try and tone down the perfection habit you have and again relax. This is why your messing things up. Your getting to ahead of yourself to stop and see what your doing.

I am sure that your boyfriend knows your not cheating and it was a simply mistake. Heck I'm even sure his sisters have dialed the wrong number in their life. And sisters are going to be protective of their brother.

That's all you need to do hun nothing else nothing more but relax, realize your human and stop getting ahead of yourself. Things will fall into place and be just right!! Try it you'll see!!

Best of luck to you!!


Scooter
Slow down, you are moving and thinking too fast, take a deep breath and check your self twice before you act don't be in such a rush and all will come together, I know I am guilty of similar problem


Britney S
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You seem like a good person and should just be more careful about what you do and say so that people won't mistake it for something else.


Wisenheimer
I think a lot of it has to do with confidence and how you actually deal with the mistake. When I was less confident, I know I made more mistakes because I was not sure of myself. Then when I made the mistakes, I'd beat myself up for them and forget that everyone makes mistakes. Now when I make a mistake, I try to just laugh about it, and it makes a huge difference. Hope this helps=)


hardworkur84
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Unfortunately, mistakes happen whether you like it or not. Stop being so hard on yourself. The only way you can prevent mistakes from happening is if you learn from them the first time and refuse to do them again. Just dont make the same mistakes twice. If I was perfect, I would think something's wrong with me cuz nobody's perfect. But keep that desire too.


Anne B
Double check everything especially when it comes to sending someone documents. Don't rush; check it carefully. As far as these people think you are cheating on your boyfriend - that's their problem, not yours.

ANYONE can make that mistake. What is their problem???


proud of it
slow down


Clown Knows
Everyone makes mistakes, don't obsess about it. If possible put together the materials that you are sending to someone, and come back and check it an hour or so later before sending it.


NICOLE
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Haha, I screw up everything I lay eyes on!

Maybe you do things to fast! You should slow down a little. Think about what you're gunna say b4 u say it. Try not to get to nervous all the time.

...................Just sloooooooooow down

...................like a turtle

lol

Hope this can help!


curiosityreincarnated
Double check what you do, and maybe think things through before you say them out loud. Everyone has some faults, you don't sound that bad off, I mess allot more up then you. :D


mary s
Relax, take one thing at a time


stephanie
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focus on one thing at a time.


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Those "stupid mistakes" may be with you all your life, as they are with me from time to time, as when I can't get my wife's name and my neighbor's wife's name right, such as the right name with the right wife. The solution! Quit being "such a perfectionist" and realize we all make mistakes, some dumber than others, like the time as a teenager when I was kissing a girl goodnight from a date, and I couldn't get her name right until the fourth try. As you can imagine, we didn't date long. And if your career faulters a bit from your "stupid mistakes", just remember that old phrase, "God works in mysterious ways", and maybe you weren't supposed to have that job. God may have other ideas for you, so don't call His ideas "stupid". God Bless you, and your mistakes (lol).


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