domesticbark
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1. suicide doesn't solve ****. you commit suicide, ur a coward. 2. go get help with that eating disorder. ur destroying ur body. and 3. if ur family calls u fat u ***** slap them right across the face. and if u feel that bad then find a friend to talk to who will listen and give u the comfort and advice u need. one that only helps u and doesn't try to help u by getting a psychologist or sumthing. this cannot be any kind of family member. |
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Amalthea
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NOT! Please wait. Wait a day, then another day. Things change, usually for the better. Your family doesn't need to control your life or your self-image. Even if you are dependent on them now, that will change. Please talk to someone- a guidance counselor, a teacher you trust. Someone outside your family. There's a whole world outside your house. |
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DragonWrites the Fire Faery
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Suicide is not the answer. It never is. Life will improve if you stick it out and work it through.
You know that you're not fat. 110 pounds is not fat on ANYONE. You may be a little underweight, actually, depending on your height.
The one thing I can tell you is that Jesus loves you. He loves you more than you can ever imagine. Life without Him does seem bleak and hopeless, dim and endless. But with Him? Joy unspeakable!
I'll tell you now that I struggled with depression and thoughts of suicide for years. My relationship with Jesus is what has seen me through it all. He is my Everything.
Trust me when I say that life will get better. People can be cruel but you need to know that there are people that love you and care about you. I don't know you personally and I care. Take comfort in that.
Find a counselor or adult to talk to that can help you work your depression through. You can email me if you like. I've made emailing me possible through my profile.
Keep your chin up and remember that Jesus loves you and I care. |
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ice
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dont try to end your life........its not worth it. and what kind of family would call you fat.....thats not right!!!
try to call a "sucide hotline" and seek some type of counseling.
i would hate to see you do something to hurt yourself.
HANG IN THERE.......YOU CAN DO IT!!!! |
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db
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you should get to know a man who lived by the name Jesus, you will find everything u need in him. |
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outlaw_tattoo_biker
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You are okay. I know because I feel the same way a lot of the time. Tell someone you love how you are feeling. |
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cireengineering
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OK, first you need to relax. You appear to be very stressed out. You are encountering suppressive personalities in your life, these are people who feel that keeping you down elevates themselves. Unfortunately this line of thinking only serves to bring the person they're suppressing and themselves down. They exude their negativity in all directions. You need to remove yourself from the negative and suppressive people in your life. I recommend you seek counsel and talk to people that have positive attitudes. You should do something that makes you happy, do something constructive. The people around you are bringing you down, and you're better than they are, that's why they're trying to pull you down. You may want to consider disconnecting from the suppressive people in your life, or at least distance yourself from them. You are not alone, there are many kind people out there that will help you, and there are a lot people that you can meet that will lift you up instead of bringing you down. |
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GiggleBoxMcGee
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If you need someone to talk to here are some numbers you can call for people who can help:
1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433)
1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255)
1-800-448-3000 (TDD 1-800-448-1833)
You mention that you weight 110 pounds but you don't mention if you are in fact obese, either way it's not really cool for your family to call you fat unless their being sarcastic, and even then they need to make that clear. Just tell them next time someone calls you fat that you'd really rather them not call you that.
Life is a pretty wierd trip, but there's you can always change your path. Focus on something you like to do, there has to be something, next time you feel depressed do that activity, or just think about it, draw yourself doing that activity, write about how you feel doing that, simply imagine yourself doing the activity. That's what I always did.
Suicide or not? Let's go with not.
Hopefully you can find help. |
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HushYourFuss
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Don't end your life! Are you really going to let your family be the reason you die? You gonna let them have the best of you? Let them WIN? You gotta outsmart them....stand up....and I'll tell you staight up...if you don't get off being bulimic you could kill yourself anyways. Take control!!!!!!!! GO RIGHT NOW and tell your parents that you want to seriously kill yourself. If they don't take you seriously...call 911! |
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Stimpson J. Cat
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Please look in the phone book and call your nearest 24 hour crisis line. They are trained to assist you. If you cannot find one, call the psychiatric ward of your local hospital and ask if they have any help line numbers. There are people out there who care and can help you. You just have to reach out. |
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♥Ms. Allison♥
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Sometimes, family members can be so cruel. Don't kill yourself over them, just keep going on with life, everything's going to be okay. Just pray to God about your problem and I guarantee you will get help. |
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kaleidoscope_eyes33
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My personal view on suicide is that it may seem like an easy way out for you, but you need to think of life for others once you're gone. I hope this helps...http://www.suicidehelplines.org/ |
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allknowing
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Suicide is never the answer. You are not fat if you are 110 pounds. Seek Jesus for answers. Go to church, join a church group, make some good friends for personal support. |
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melissa c
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you need to talk to a professional, honestly. that is really wrong of your family and you shouldn't let it lead to an eating disorder. you are probably a beautiful person inside and out. and you are defintely NOT FAT. dont let things like this bring you down, if anything let it make you stronger and fight in the battle of your problem and your family. you are not hopeless and life is too good to let it end this way. i know you want help because you posted this, so find it. go to a doctor, a pysch, and a social worker.
Feel Better and Dont Give Up!!!! |
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chotzy
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honey...dont believe what every body says 110 is a healthy size and i bet that your family does call you fat because they're jealouse!
girl i way 165 and i dont care what anybody tells me about my weight...just have faith in your self! |
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ladyarwen0720
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You have to call a specialist right away so you can get an appointment as soon as you can. |
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TNL
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You are not fat, not even close. You should not allow someone to cause you to feel that way. I think that you need to go to a doctor about these feelings. Death is not the answer. What do u think happens after life......you don't get to just come back when you are ready you know. I think that you need to realize that things will get better, you will get older and if you don't want to you never have to talk to your family again. Just be happy and don't worry about them. |
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FoxHound
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someone should slap each person in your family that tells you that you are fat, because you definitely are not |
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<3
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dont listen to that and your stronger than words and everything else. |
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Lake Oswego
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Dont Do that Just find new friends |
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Pirate Lady
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Please, please, please, don't kill yourself. You are not fat, 110 pounds is a good weight. You could try meditating or praying to whatever you believe in.
Whatever your problem is, it will pass in time.
Please don't do it. Please. |
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islandofmudo
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dont do it,,life would be shite with out you and people other than your family know your not fat and no dout have a super personailty, |
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Kat
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Not. Try to calm down and let yourself cry it out if you have to...talk to a friend maybe, call anyone you can think of that would support you, or you can try a hotline.
http://www.hopeline.com/
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ |
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jkjudgex
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Do not commit suicide. If you need someone to talk to, I am at my terminal, just IM me and we can chat.
I can't promise anything, not a doctor or a psychologist, but I know you don't need to kill yourself and I'd like to get to know you, and figure out why you feel that way. |
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lori b
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110 pounds is not fat.it sounds like you need more positive people in your life.dont kill yourself |
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poeticjustice
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No, of course not. I'm sorry your family has said those things about you, but never let someone else tell you how you are-only you know that, not anyone else. If you need help, talk to someone close who is not your family, or even the guidance counselor. Good luck. |
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riju1988
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Please dont think of Sucide you are a girl you have whole life to live freely.Sucide is not a solution.You may stop eating orbe in a diet for a while and dont care about ur family they are joking because they love u.Plzz dont talk which has no meaning. |
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klm63
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this is a cry for help, suicide is FOREVER! dont even consider it an option, call a suicide hot line.......or talk to family or friends on how you are feeling, now, please. |
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Kristi
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Call 1-800-SUICIDE (784-2433) right now.
I am a fifteen year survivor of depression. There is hope. Your life will get better. Trust me.
The first step is to talk to someone right now to get you past the urgency to commit suicide. The next step is to see a doctor and get on anti-depression meds (this is crucial). It may take a few weeks to find the right medication and dosage, but it is worth it. The last step is to see a psychologist or counselor regularly.
Give yourself a chance, hon. Life can be so happy, if you just support yourself through this moment in time. And, tell your family and friends what you're going through. Ask them for help.
Best wishes ... ((Hugs)) Kristi
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I just noticed that one of the questions you've answered recently mentioned you're already on an antidepressant. It sounds like this one isn't working for you. Sometimes it takes trying several different meds to find the right one for your body chemistry. |
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music junkie
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you won't have to be around your family forever...suicide is a long term solution to a short term situation...just wait til your out of your house and on your own...it will be awesome! |
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smpurves
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You are sad. You know you aren't fat. That's why it hurts you; you seem like a smart girl. You know this disease runs in your family and you have the power that they didn't; you can break this terrible cycle. Your family is severly misled, they believe themselves not good enough; it makes them feel better to put a good person down. Don't let them win this battle. You are strong, healthy (for now) and intelligent. You know right from wrong. You don't need anyone to tell you. And you know that suicide is not the answer. YOU aren't the problem here. Retreat inside yourself and evaluate the behaviors and actions of others. Are they really what you want for yourself??? |
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