Valerie
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its o.k 4 him 2 but its NOT NORMAL |
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It's MEEEE!!!!
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no it is normal it should grow up and move on |
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osraybel@sbcglobal.net
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Ask yourself are you happy saying there with your parents if u r, say wtih your parents |
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jdhayman
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I had a guy that worked for me once that was pretty much in the exact situation as this person you expalined. He was just a little odd, not real odd...just a little. I think it is okay but not normal. My dad is my best friend for the most part. However if I lived with him thinking I would loose my mind. |
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Hannah Radar
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I wish any of my children would have stayed longer. It's fine if a man cares to live with his parents at 31 or any age. Particularly if both he and they are self-supporting. It could be out of love, or in order to save money. In either case, there's nothing wrong with it.
I knew a girl who moved out when she was 17. She went back and lived with her parents again at 29. It's her home--even if she was gone for 12 years. |
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larry m
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its time you got on with your life and let your parents have a life . |
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pingin_69
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I just don't think you can label someone "unnormal" becasue they live with their parents....
Some ppl enjoy the security of living at home. With loving parents and a good home, it makes the choice pretty easy for some ppl to stay @ home...
Personally i moved out @ 23, but that's me, and some ppl just don't need too, they've got it too good, so why move... |
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celticwoman777
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Although most people do choose to live on their own once they reach adulthood I don't see anything really strange in his situation. You don't describe him as a mama's boy or antisocial. It's certainly possible he's never truly grown up. It could be that he cannot cut the apron strings. Is he someone you are interested in? If so, is this a deal breaker for you? If you are not interested in him, why does it bother you so much? If it works for him and his parents, what business is it of yours? |
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hkfilmfan
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No! Can you spell loser with a capitol "L"? He needs to grow up and get out on his own! |
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Meowmixtape
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Leave me alone, stop trying to control me woman!! just kidding, I think the question is why does he like living at his parents house or how come he doesn't want to move out. Who is this guy to you? |
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Earl E. Morningwood
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I guess he is in no hurry to get trapped by a nosey chick. Looking to change him and spend his money :D |
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ddt
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It's not normal but he probably has a fat wad of cash in his pocket and lots of Benjamin's in the bank! They must be a very close family. If keeps doing it, he could be well off in his forties and fifties, and then, all that living at home would have really paid off. |
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J-Bird
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Loser. |
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will
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Its normal because he has a choice. He chooses to stay with his parents and they don't mind. Its abnormal because society says once you're 18 you have to leave home and go screw up your life and end up on the 6 o clock news in a remote growth of weeds or on Oprah. Obviously, if he's doing fine financially, physically and otherwise then wow, sounds like a happy guy to me. To each his own. |
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100% Chance of Pain
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No....this is not normal....It is really sad in fact. |
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DAVEG_10
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Nope.
He should have been gone years ago. |
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poohu812many
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No, absolutely not. At his age, he should want to have some privacy and independence from his parents. I have no problem with someone helping his parents, even if they don't need help, but living with them? That's just ridiculous. I know because I dated a dude OLDER THAN THAT who still lived at home. Even some of his siblings - his older brother in particular - thought he was weird. |
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Judas Rabbi
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No it's not. Get a life, job and apartment for yourself. |
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van
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I think it is odd that he wants to stay under his parents wings. It is kind of sad really. I work with a few people who are the same way. I would want to ask him what keeps him at home. I would want to know why he never married. The parents need to cut the cord also. It is time for the little birdie to be shoved out of the nest. What happens when they die? Where will he be then? |
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nemraC
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UH yeah, for a LOSER |
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nehalpatel1996
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nope hes gay and a failure |
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Miso Soup
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I don't, someone that age should've moved out when they were 19 or something. |
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beruto
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I do not see anything wrong with that kind of set-up. For all we know, maybe they have very close family ties. As far as I know, amreican laws permit 18 year olds to leave home and start on their own but its really all a matter of choice. Some people may think it is not normal maybe because if they were in that situation, they would do the opposite..... because they want independence or freedom from being told what to do or hate the idea having parents sticking their noses at the things they do.
It is not at all abnormal. It becomes abnormal if at that age, the guy still has no work and is still dependent of the the provisions of his parents...... There is nothing at all wrong about staying with your own parents for the rest of your life if there is nothing harmful in the parent-son relationship. People with close family ties according to statistics do better in life and live happy and fulfilled lives. |
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thedavecorp
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It's not normal, no. You're like FAILURE TO LAUNCH or something.
But it's not exactly ABnormal either. It's becoming more and more common unfortunately. But that's usually just for people who can't make it on their own yet. You should really be on your own. |
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Carlee
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OK, well really, why not? If it makes him happy why can't he stay there? You might say looser, but I think it would depend on his character to decide that. Personally I really want to get on my own, but maybe he has a good relationship with his parents. And no rent! Anyways, all up to character. If he deals well with life (joking, going out, whatever) he is fine. |
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MED_SCHOOL
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MOVE OUT!! Get a home, get a wife, get some kids, get a LIFE!! |
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ღ� Queen B �ღ
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Uh no, I agree with the first answer |
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parshooter
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He is probably gay. He just won't admit it. |
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tammy
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no no and naw!!!! are you crazy! |
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Gary
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Chances are there is something keeping him there. Perhaps his father tends to be abusive toward his mother and he stays at home to referree?
Probably something like that.
Otherwise, if it's just because...you're dealing with a mama's boy. Run! |
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