Kk U
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The only important thing is that your happy, so don't worry about it. It is perfectly normal! You have some good reasons too. Hope I helped! |
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carolyn
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It's fine to feel good about yourself no matter what size you are. More power to ya! |
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Linda M
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if your happy and not too overweight then rock on. i am heavy too. i want to lose 20 pounds. i am lazy and my husband tells me i am not fat. so i love him for it. |
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Dalina
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No, it's not weird as long as you're happy with the way you look. That's all that really matters. |
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pomsgirl93
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I dont think its weird at all. it shows that ur not insecure and ur perfectly fine with the way u look. It also shows that u dont care at all about what others think and ur confident. Thats one of the biggest things i think girls have problems with. And ur right, no more jeleousy from the other women and guys will like u 4 who u r. |
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playas_girl01
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it's not sick u just don't want people making comments about your looks. also it is unhealthy to be overweight, still be happy with who you are but try to get some of the weight off. each time you gain the shorter you life span is. |
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hpmaniac88
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Well, I guess being chubby or fat can take a lot of pressure off, because you don't feel like you're being scrutinised and you know people like you for your personality, not just your looks. It's not sick, really... To tell the truth, I had this phase in highschool when I was pretty chunky and it was the happiest two years of my teenage life. I still lost the weight later though, health and aesthetic reasons. ;)
I don't quite know what you mean by fat, but if you are a great deal overweight, you should consider the effect your weight is having on your health. Lots of people like being fat in spite of the fact that it threatens their heart, liver, blood vessels, causes diabetes etc... That's your decision, though. However, if you are healthy and have a healthy lifestyle and diet, then who the hell cares? Being comfortable in one's own skin is rare indeed nowadays... |
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drpepperlover
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no, it's not. its good to have a change in your life. dude...im skinny as heck and i wish i can gain weight. it feels good that your not the same shape your whole life. now ppl wont think of you as an anorexic weirdo anymore like they still think of me. lol. keep your chin up high and like you for you! ;) |
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Mr. Right
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I think that you have talked yourself into liking being fat. It's easier than facing the truth about what you really feel. |
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Nessa C
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No not at all.
Opera said that she is fat and loves herself. i wouldn't worry. just be urself and love urself. |
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Lindzi
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Being overweight is unhealthy, however, it's more important for you to be happy with yourself. Try loosing a bit of weight, just so your in the correct weight range for your age and height, and you'll be just as happy as if you were fat. |
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Vincent T
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no just be your self thats your choice in life dont be ashamed if thats what you like then just forget about your old life you go girl |
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RichIzy
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That is a perfectly okay thing. My friend has a gf who looks a bit plump but he finds it very attractive. Don't fall under sway of American phobia of fat people. Beauty is skin-deep |
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The Dalai Mama
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As long as you are happy, who cares? You only live once so live happy. Of course, you may not live as long. What is more important to you - quality or quantity? |
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<3patty87
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no..i dont think so
ur just being honest
i think its just society's obsession with thin people that made them say that |
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Bloody Jack
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No, I don't think it's weird or bad.
When I was 30 pounds heavier I felt better, too. I felt more solid and powerful.
As long as you are healthy and happy, do what you want. |
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desulaha
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As long as you're healthy, and happy, that's what matters!!! |
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All at once.
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im glad your happy with yourself. |
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wingn
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No way, sounds like you're comfortable who you are. If anything you're the healthy one, its the rest of us that are sick. |
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IN LOVE WITH WEEZY BABY!
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You're just comfortable with yourself. You were comfortable thin, now you're comfortable a little heavier. Rock on! |
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kyliebear♥
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i think it's like you're kind of taking a break. it's annoying having people judge you based on your looks and pretending to actually like your personality. now you get a chance to be the real you i guess. but eventually you're going to miss all the gawking, i can promise you that. enjoy it while it lasts, you'll gain confidence in places you never knew you had :) |
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Vanessa
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You are not strange or sick for liking your new body. It is good to be confident with yourself, no matter what anybody else thinks. It is not a bad thing. |
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hillcr222
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Not weird at all. I'd rather be fat than thin. Curves are beautiful!!!! |
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Pami
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no, its not weird... you're happy with who you are, and that's all that matters. |
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me2mighty
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ur fine as long as ur husband is fine with it and its healthy |
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Gina
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To each her own- Not everyone wants to be a stick. :) |
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Shyet of the !MC! Squad
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I hate that people label you "fat" or "skinny"
Can't people be happy no matter what size they are?
You shouldn't care what your size is! |
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never a repub again
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no just be happy with yourself.. thats all that matters. personally fat girls give better head so i like them more!!! |
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trouble_sum81
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OMG I am so the same way. Skinny all my life. Had second kid and got fat. And I LOVE it. Food is so good. Life is too short to not enjoy what you eat. MY man doesn't mind either. HE has put on weight too and I think he is HOT! |
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Dan G
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If you are happy with who you are, then there is nothing sick about it. The opinions of other people matter not............... |
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RuthieGS
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no i don't think so! well it's good that you are being yourself and not trying to look like everyone else! what matters is that YOU ARE HAPPY! no matter what anyone says if you like being "fat" then that's cool! |
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