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 What's the first sign that you are going crazy?
Please, serious answers only! I don't know how to put it but, what are the signs of a person losing their mind?
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I didn't ask if I was crazy, I asked what ...


 I have very low self esteem and I want to find confidence can anyone help me?
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 How many of you approve suicide ?

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i mean how many of you dont consider ppl who commit suicide as cowards ??...


 Self Harming?
I have a friend that is seriously depressed and self harming. She has done to her GP for help but he his answer is to put her on medication. Last wkend i spoke to her about the self harming and she ...


 How do you fight depression?
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 Can a person become depressed for no reason?
hi,i feel depressed but nothing has happened theres no reason for me to be depressed?and i go to the doctors and im healthy so what gives ? thanks
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im a male...............


 My mom is suicidal and i cant take it anymore?
I know it's not her fault,she has alot of mental issues and has bad depression/anxiety. She has three times tried to take her own life unsuccuessfully(thank god),but today i wasnt in and she ...


 Somethin to help me sleep?
say somethin to help me sleep please?...


 I think I'm depressed... advice?
When I'm with people, I feel alone still. All of the sudden, my outlook on life is nearly all negative and I'm tired all the time. When sad things happen, I get extra upset and it feels ...


 What does this sound like? (long but please read)?
here's my symptoms -
-believing things when other say isn't true or real
-sees, feels, and hears things others don't
-i'm tortured by this black figure i see
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 I cut myself ..please answer?
Hi there,

Yesterday I had a pretty bad day I got so down and was so upset and hurt I was on a high and then a low and I got down to the point I sliced my arms with a box cutter and a peg ...


 Is it possible to develope a mental disorder from smoking weed a couple times?
well i have serious anxiety/depression ect ect but i noticed it started since those couple of times i smoked weed. i got really stoned lost control of my body and while it was happening i saw things ...


 Why am i so fat???
ok i am 14yrs old hight is 159cm weight is 40kg or 5'4 and 88p's so how can i lose weight i have already not eaten for 8 days and only having a dry buiscuit every 4 days now but i just feel ...


 How do people go crazy?
like is it how they were raised? severly depressed?...like in the mental institute kind?? and do they see things differently than the average person does??...


 I feel so deep down sad......someone please help!?
I lost a very close family member last year in a motorbike crash & since then I just haven't been able to get myself back up again.
Everything seemed to be looking up for me this time ...


 Is there anyone who enjoys their disorders?
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 Do you find you get more happy as you get older?
I do because I understand life more
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I am 62 by the ...


 How do i fake happiness?
Friends continually try and cheer me up, but its just not working. Just to shut them up, how do i fake happiness?...


 How do I help my wife with her depression?
We got married fairly recently and I know her better than most, but I'm struggling with how best to support her thru her depression and anxiety. I don't want to "cure" it as I'...


 Im Always Tierd?
Im pretty much always tierd..
Even when i have had a good nights sleep i always wake up tierd..
Im not over weight..
I was wondering if any would know why?
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Wanda C
How do you cure a cold heart?
How do you cure a cold hearted person and why do they become that way?
Thanks for your answers in advance! :)
                     




oldschool
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Walk around the block four times at 3:00 a.m. without spitting on the sidewalk.


superTHEMAINEthatooh!!
a heating pad[:


Alexis
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put it in the microwave hahaha man i am on a roll today.. yeah sorry i have no idea


armedtermite
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put it in the microwave


Don Glarr
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Get them a puppy. Let them get to know it for about a week. And then cut its throat in front of them. If that doesn't work, you should just try to show them love, and maybe they will learn from your example.


circa 1980
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You cannot change anyone, so don't bother attempting. Especially if someone is really that cold-hearted...what do they care?


x[Anisha]x
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fri it lol


C'est Moi
THERE IS NO CURE. SORRY... It's their lack of empathy. Its a flaw.


Jennifer T
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Sadly enough it is usually because they were raised that way. Something caused them to be that way. The only was to cure it is for them to go to therapy..


The Troll
By staying away from your mom.


Mrs Wilkins
fried ice cream becuase it doesn't have bones


Louisa
drink some tea :)


Chris P
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Puppies.

Seriously, though, most cold-hearted people are deeply disappointed in some aspect of their life. They still want to be happy, but think that they can't be because of reason X, whatever that is: childhood abuse, divorce, death of a loved one, or that they just don't think they are getting their way.

I don't think there is any way to "cure" a cold-hearted person; it's an inside job. What you can do, though, is try to see how this person expresses himself or herself. They are usually reaching out to people in their own way, and if you can find out what that is you can bring them a lot of joy. The problem is some people are so far gone they won't let anyone in, or what they expect is so demanding or unacceptable to the person they are seeking it from that a relationship cannot be continued.


barrybond0044
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Give him so much lovin' that he melts from the HEAT!


stormy.!
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You can never truly "cure" a person, only aid them when they need help.

Many people who do not love, or are weary of loving become this way from something in their past or in their present. For instance, someone could have been abandoned by their parents, and left to fend for themselves throughout the years...or bad break up could have turned them sour. It all really depends.

If you wish to help someone, you must let them know that it is okay to cry; it is okay to feel. You must let them realize that someone out there loves them, and that is you. Having normal conversation, and eating dinner together is a great way to get insight of this person's life. You never really know a person until you walk a mile in their shoes, as they say. The most you can do is open your heart and hope they walk in. :)


clarry
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People become like that because they've been hurt or have lost their faith in others...Smother them with love - taking it slow at first, and eventually it will melt!


SANNy
theres not really any way to cure a cold hearted person . & maybe they became that way becasue someone hurt them in the past ..


Perry
Try sticking a platypus down your throat you noob.
P.S. Keep on Lovin'


Twixie
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Whoaa trying to change people. Sounds like a whole lotta rejection to me... many girls make that mistake.

But I suppose this person may just need some hugs and kisses (:

But if you get hurt in the process, just forget about it... it's how my friend got depressed and started loathing herself.

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!ale in wonderland !
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sometimes its because they have hatred
or they just cant forgive
alot of times a cold hearted person is dieing for someone to help but it never comes along
the best thing i would do is be patient with the person and kind and loving
i think only god can cure a cold heart but thats my opinion


Gabby
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Somebody with a cold heart has usually suffered and something has happened in their life to make them that way. It’s usually something very personal. You just have to shine the light in their life, make them happy.
I guess, “melt the ice”. It takes a lot of work, and a lot of time, but if somebody is willing to stick it out with them then it’ll happen in time.


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PattyAnn
You keep loving it. Why they become that way covers a multitude of answers. The WHY doesn't matter as much as your question "how do you cure it?" You are very thoughtful and caring to be concerned about this. Many cold hearts have never been loved, or have been treated coldly. You can continue to show your love and concern, no matter what, and show that cold-hearted person that they have found someone who cares.


Special K
You can't cure them, they have to cure themselves and most likely they won't change. It is a defense mechanism. Fear is a terrible thing.


Laurena
Just give them some love and it'll all work out better. Try to become there friend and let them know they're not in it all alone.The answer is LOVE...


LindaLou
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You cannot cure a cold heart in another. It is up to them to cure themselves. And they have to decide that they want to first. They may not think there's anything wrong with them.


i don't know
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do nice things for them and wait until being nice rubs off on them


nguyen.nam70
just give they 9.00 dollar or a rose


Hyo Jung K
If the person has a cold heart because of something traumatic that happened in her life, try getting a psychologist or therapist for help. If it's just their personality (like me in Real life:P) than your probably out of luck, cause that's just who they are. If you truly want to cure a cold heart, might as well go to the source and help her with that.


Locke
find out what they are passionate about and try to focus on that.


M v
They have been hurt to many times...............you cannot cure how someone feels........but you can show them to trust again.


collegenebula
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I have a cold heart... that is a REALLY hard question. I have my girlfriend crying right in front of me and I can't feel a thing. She seriously hurts because of this. I wish I had an answer for you. I have to pretend that I have feelings so that she calms down. Give her a hug and apologize. People who are like me, if they feel like I feel, are perceived as selfish and self loving, when really it feels like there is an emptiness inside all the time. maybe it was that I was hurt a long time ago and now I put up walls because I didn't like the hurt. I think this could be the case. You need to show that person what it is to feel again. Make them vulnerable, it is hard, but everyone is different and everyone has a soft spot. Mine is generally an empty bed haha, I don't like when I sleep alone, so maybe mine are coming down a bit, but in conflict they fly right back up, so it isn't that you aren't taking them down but they are used as a defensive mechanism from letting anyone get too close, or close enough to hurt them.


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