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 On a scale of 1-10, how crazy do I sound?
I just chased an 11 year old girl down th street for being rude to me. I'm a 30 year old woman. Should I seek help? What is wrong with me?...


 I think I hate my 1 year old daughter?
She is 15 mths old
I rarely have tender feelings for her
I always shout at her, hit her, easily get mad at her for the silliest reasons, i treat her as if she is a grown up, not a baby.
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 My daughter tried to kill herself?
1 week ago my daughter took a bottle of pills and consumed half a bottle of vodka. She was in hospital for 3 days, but is now home with us. She has started thearpy, and I've talked to her, and ...


 I want to kill myself?
I MISS MY EX BOYFRIEND AND I AM MOVING OUT OF MY PARENTS HOUSE AND I FEEL LIKE I HAVE HURT THEM AND I JUST FEEL LIKE I HURT EVERYONE I HAVE KNOWN IN MY LIFE SO IF I DIE I WON'T CAUSE ANYMORE HURT...


 Is self-harm a selfish act?
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It class="forum-titles" >What if no one knows or very few know?<br><b>Additional Details</b><br> &quot;but one does one personally gain by harming themselves?&quot;<br> It&#...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#FFF0E7" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/89.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/What-is-bio-polar-9136.htm" class=forum-titles><b>What is bio-polar?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >I been having problems and they been telling me that i am depressed and any med. i am on just don&#039;t seem to work! And one day i was really ***** and someone said something i just lost it and my ...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#F6F6F6" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/103.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/Is-piercing-a-form-of-self-injury-9156.htm" class=forum-titles><b>Is piercing a form of self injury?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >I was just wondering your thoughts and feelings on this subject. If a person pierces themselves with a safety pin or thumbtack, do you think this is a form of self harm?...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#FFF0E7" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/173.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/Are-you-scared-of-death-9166.htm" class=forum-titles><b>Are you scared of death??</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#F6F6F6" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/182.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/What-can-i-do-to-stop-cutting-9174.htm" class=forum-titles><b>What can i do to stop cutting?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >I feel depressed alot and just seeing blood gives me back some sense of reality i yearn for but all my friends dont want me to. what should i do?<br><b>Additional Details</b><br> ...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#FFF0E7" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/76.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/I-am-feeling-very-depressed-and-want-to-die-help-9176.htm" class=forum-titles><b>I am feeling very depressed and want to die. help?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >i was standing on the top floor of a multi story car park on saturday and felt like jumping off but my gf was there and she stopped me and took me home. i fear she might leave me because... well i ...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#F6F6F6" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/69.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/How-do-you-know-if-your-depressed-9178.htm" class=forum-titles><b>How do you know if your depressed ?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#FFF0E7" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/179.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/Am-i-a-little-paranoid-9184.htm" class=forum-titles><b>Am i a little paranoid?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >i am pretty cautious about the internet i mean i think this website would be a good way to meet people it&#039;s just you hear so much about stalkers and everything i&#039;m afraid ...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#F6F6F6" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/83.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/What-do-you-do-when-you-are-really-depressed-to-fell-better-9190.htm" class=forum-titles><b>What do you do when you are really depressed to fell better?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >besides the obvious of taking meds and seeking therapy<br> <br> did you ever try swimming in very cold water then taking a hot shower, then back in the cold water<br> <br> this isn&#039;t ...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#FFF0E7" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/18.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/If-you-had-to-commit-suicide-how-would-you-do-it-9222.htm" class=forum-titles><b>If you had to commit suicide, how would you do it?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >Not that I am suicidal, but I know how I would-lots of sleeping pills and pain killers....</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#F6F6F6" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/88.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/I-feel-humiliated-9228.htm" class=forum-titles><b>I feel humiliated?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >my mum had the front of our house painted bright, sunshine yellow. itr is soooooo ridiculous and humiliating. it is more noticeable because it is a double fronted house of a terraced street.&#039;ve ...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#FFF0E7" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/50.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/How-do-I-keep-myself-from-napping-9238.htm" class=forum-titles><b>How do I keep myself from napping?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >I&#039;ve gotten into the bad habit of taking naps at around 4 in the afternoon and want it to stop. I just get really grouchy when I don&#039;t and extremely bored. What can I do to occupy that ...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#F6F6F6" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/75.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/Is-anyone-else-still-up-9250.htm" class=forum-titles><b>Is anyone else still up?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >Its almost 2am! I should so be sleeping right now because I work in the morning. ahhhhh....</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#FFF0E7" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/47.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/Serious-question-about-coping-with-depression-9270.htm" class=forum-titles><b>Serious question about coping with depression?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >What do you do when you feel depressed?? I only want people to answer if they seriously have ever been depressed, not just pious people who think they have the right cheeky answers. I get depressed ...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#F6F6F6" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/125.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/How-do-I-finally-free-myself-from-depression-9274.htm" class=forum-titles><b>How do I finally free myself from depression?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >I have suffered for 13 years, had counselling, various medication, CBT etc.... when will it all end?...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> <table width="200" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="5" class="text" style="border: 1px dotted #aaaaaa"> <tr> <td bgcolor="#FFF0E7" align="center"> <table width="100%" cellspacing="2" cellpadding="0" class="text"> <tr> <td align="left"> <img src="avarars/121.png" class=photo width="24" height="24" align="left">&nbsp;<a href="http://www.healthexpertadvice.org/forum/Mental-Health/Should-I-commit-suicide-9284.htm" class=forum-titles><b>Should I commit suicide?</b></a></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="forum-titles" >I am REALLY thinking about suicide. 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I was in the middle of suffocating myself, and then my boifriend at the time had called, and i had told him I was going to kill myself, and ...</td> </tr> </table> </td> </tr> </table> <br> <br> </td><td valign="top" > <TABLE id=pret cellSpacing=0 cellPadding=0 width="98%" border=0> <TBODY> <TR> <TD height="6" ><img src="uptb.gif" height="6"></TD></TR> <TR> <TD class=container-rate-01 style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; BORDER-TOP-STYLE: none; PADDING-TOP: 0px" align=middle> <table width="100%" border="0" > <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center nowrap ><img src="avarars/58.png" class=photo width="48" height="48"><br> <font color="#666666"><b> woodbutcher21 </b></font></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" width="100%"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px"><SPAN STYLE="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px"><SPAN STYLE="FONT-SIZE: 16px"><B>Are you afraid of dying?</B><br><input type="hidden" name="IL_RELATED_TAGS" value="1"/></SPAN></SPAN><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 16px"></SPAN> </SPAN></td></tr> </table><DIV align=center> <DIV class=line-spacer style="PADDING-RIGHT: 0px; PADDING-LEFT: 0px; PADDING-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN: 0px; WIDTH: 98%; PADDING-TOP: 0px; BORDER-BOTTOM: #f5bf94 1px dotted; HEIGHT: 1px"></DIV></DIV><div style="position: relative; float: left; padding-right: 5px; padding-top: 10px;"><script type="text/javascript"> ch_client = "loran_raul"; ch_width = 300; ch_height = 250; ch_type = "mpu"; ch_sid = "Chitika Default"; ch_backfill = 1; ch_color_site_link = "#0000CC"; ch_color_title = "#0000CC"; ch_color_border = "#FFF0E7"; ch_color_text = "#000000"; ch_color_bg = "#FFF0E7"; </script> <script src="http://scripts.chitika.net/eminimalls/amm.js" type="text/javascript"> </script> </div><DIV style="PADDING-TOP: 10px;PADDING-LEFT: 10px;PADDING-RIGHT: 10px;word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" align="left">Every year around my birthday I get depressed about getting older. 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BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/61.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Alex62</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-10.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >Use your birthday to celebrate another year that you did not die. Getting older is a gift. How &#039;bout a good old fashioned roller coaster ride. Something childish that will get your adrenalin pumping. Whatever it is that you enjoy but don&#039;t often do.<br> <br> I&#039;m not afraid of dying. I&#039;m afraid of suicidal depression, but that&#039;s just part of being bipolar.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avatar_def2.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>sweetthang</b></font><br></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >you got to go out and what ever make u happy and feel good instead of worring that ur getting old.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avatar_def2.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>lilley0011</b></font><br></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >dont be afraid, God is with u</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/52.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>▬NATAleh♪</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-25.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >No I&#039;m not.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avatar_def2.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>t_tneal27</b></font><br></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >I am not afraid of dying. I was once afraid of getting older but oh well you are as old as you feel. Do some things for yourself to yourself. Spruce up your wardrobe, get a new do&#039; just do something to regain confidence in yourself. Even if you are getting older know that suffistication is the key at any age male or female.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/65.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Robert W</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-20.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >To answer your first question, no, I&#039;m not afraid of dying... To answer your second question, I too am getting older (and not richer, quite the opposite) - I suggest you seek comfort in religion (My choice was/is Christianity, but Buddhism works too) or just seek out friendships either online or otherwise.. Being able to talk to someone about how you&#039;re feeling without them telling you that &quot;everything will be JUST FINE&quot; is refreshing..</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/82.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>gwlemt</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-10.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >It&#039;s kind of trite, but why tip toe through life to arrive safely at death? I&#039;m an EMT/firefighter, I deal with life and death everyday. I think the answer is to live your life exactly how you want too, and to make the world a better/safer place while you are here.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/90.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Angel Believe</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-20.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >NO!!!!!</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avatar_def2.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>asian_chicka</b></font><br></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >yes im afraid of dying. don&#039;t be depressed about it. Live your life the best you can as if you could go any day</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/20.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Chelsea</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-35.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >i am not afraid because i know its going to happen some day and no ones is inmortal and think of it this way ur soul will never dye out but be in a better place to live a place just like hear<br> <br> <br> <br> i only belive in heaven</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avatar_def2.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Jax4all</b></font><br></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >Just enjoy this life as much as you can! This is the one life we know about, everything else is a myth. <br> Don&#039;t think about death, just learn to take anything that comes your way and accept it!<br> <br> BTW<br> <br> Happy Birthday!!</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avatar_def2.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>corriegirl</b></font><br></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >I get the same feeling quite often - I try to remember that each day is a blessing and that so many people don&#039;t even make it through childhood. I also try to enjoy every moment even very small things so that if something does happen to me soon I&#039;ll at least feel more satisfied with my life.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/10.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>nursebob</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-45.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >I pretty much life my life like there&#039;s no tomorrow. I spend all the quality time i can with family. I try to do everything ive wanted to do. Time is short, so enjoy every second of it.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/11.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Melissa</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-45.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >No, I&#039;m not afraid to die. I&#039;m ready to get some closure on all of life&#039;s mysteries.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/60.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>lisab</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-30.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >Death is a nature process. If you spend time thinking about it living won&#039;t be as fun.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/50.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Kate J</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-20.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >I think everyone is, even people who claim not to be the least bit afraid. It helps if you have faith of some kind. I try not to worry about it too much, just live each day to the fullest, be good to others, do right by myself and other people. I am watching the Emmy&#039;s and didn&#039;t even know that Tom Snyder (talk show host) had recently died. I remember watching his late night show like yesterday, when I was in my 20s-30s. I looked him up and he was 71. Death is part of life. You didn&#039;t ask to be born and you don&#039;t ask to die. All you can do is do your best in this life.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avatar_def2.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>WayMoreParsecs</b></font><br></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >I have been pronounced dead twice in this life time. Death is not a big deal. What I fear is any pain that would be possibly be associated with it.<br> My father died on christmas day, and so, I get a little depressed around this time, and, it ruins my christmas.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/64.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Simmi</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-15.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >Well, I&#039;m dealing with a second bout of cancer and this time it is stage four so I am thinking about dying. I don&#039;t feel sick right now and I don&#039;t want to die, but I sure don&#039;t want to hurt when I die. I don&#039;t have regrets. I&#039;m not saying my life was perfect, but I lived it the way I wanted to after I got passed my fears and anxiety. I know we are all going to die, so it isn&#039;t something that only I will go through. It is just that when you are going to die, you are doing it by yourself. I would like to have people I love and care about around me. I have loved traveling in my life, but when the time comes, I want to be with the ones I love. I think we all have these philosophical questions about death. For some it is further away than others. Hopefully it gets you evaluating your life to find out it if is on the track you want.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/29.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>GG</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-30.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >No, we all are going to. We can live a healthy life and have better quality of life. I am a lot older than you. Some things are actually better.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/11.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>FJM</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-30.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >Npt afraid of dying, just getting there that bothers me. Turn your feelings around, and be happy for another year of the beauty around you and the fact you are one year wiser.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/2.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Ashley W</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-40.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >really dont get depresed about dying. try to enjoy your life while you have one and make sure to be atheltic and involved in many activities or sports to be in good shape and that wil help you be healthy and not older :)</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/9.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Readbooks</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-50.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >Why not do something nice for someone else on your birthday.<br> <br> Volunteer at a food bank or the hospital. Perhaps you could go rock some babies that are in intensive care. <br> <br> Helping others is a good way for me to beat depression.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avatar_def2.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Pamela V</b></font><br></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >Well, consider all that you are learning with each year of life. Perhaps you are missing something. Try volunteering your time to help others in need. That always makes me feel better.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/92.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>Kayla™</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-15.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >talk to an older family member like a grandparent. It will make you feel better that you are still young.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/79.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>vtsztpu</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-20.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >Not really. I just rather not be there when it happens.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/66.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>MadameZ</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-40.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >dying is a part of life -- it&#039;s where we&#039;re all headed -- the great equalizer -- the end of a good life<br> <br> don&#039;t be scared -- get prepared -- so when it happens, you&#039;ll be assured that those you leave behind will be OK</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avatar_def2.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>CherryCheri</b></font><br></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >Do something for someone else - Getting out of your own space always helps. Do something nice for yourself - plan a day of things that you have wanted to do. Good luck and happy birthday - I know..nearly mine too.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/23.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>michael g</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-25.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >The best thing I know of about getting older is teaching others. I&#039;m pretty good at my work ( I&#039;m 41 and in my industry for 23 years ) and I love passing on what I know. I feel good teaching people and it strokes my ego for the &quot; student &quot; to be amazed at my speed, knowledge, shortcuts ect....Am I afraid of dying HELL NO - I&#039;m curious as hell as what happens to your soul.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr> <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center valign="top"><img src="avarars/77.png" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> <font color="#666666" style="PADDING-RIGHT: 10px"><b>succubus</b></font><br><IMG height=12 alt=Rating src="stars-25.gif" width=64></td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" >there is no such thing as older or grown up, i do get annoyed at the feeling that i add a number to my current age, but that is not me, the face, the physical might change but your mind, heart, beleifs, things that you enjoy will never go away, youth is still and forever will be in you as long as you beleive it.</span> </div></td></tr> <tr> <td colspan=2 style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;"> <br> <DIV class=spacer-line style="BACKGROUND-POSITION: center 50%; BACKGROUND-IMAGE: url(../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../../spacer-gri.gif); WIDTH: 97%; BACKGROUND-REPEAT: repeat-x; HEIGHT: 1px; TEXT-ALIGN: center"></DIV></td></tr> <tr > <td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" allign=center><img src="avatar_def.gif" class=photo width="48" height="48" ><br> </td><td style="BORDER-RIGHT: 0px; BORDER-LEFT: 0px;" > <a name="postreply"></a><div align="left"><SPAN style="MARGIN-TOP: 5px; LINE-HEIGHT: 20px; PADDING-TOP: 5px; word-wrap:break-word; word-break: keep-all;" ><SCRIPT LANGUAGE="JAVASCRIPT"> function submit1(){ if (document.fp.user_name.value=="") { alert("Please complete the Member Name field !"); document.fp.user_name.focus(); return; } if (document.fp.user_em.value=="") { alert("Please complete the Member Email field !"); document.fp.user_em.focus(); return; } if (document.fp.ddesc.value=="") { alert("Please complete the Comment field !"); document.fp.ddesc.focus(); return; } var at="@"; var dot="."; var str=document.fp.user_em.value; if (str.indexOf(at)==-1){ alert("Invalid E-mail! 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