xyummy
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Totally agree. No point in saying "no offense" when you're going to offfend that person... I find it really annoying |
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ramjet
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yes, "no offense", like the words "like" and "um" - are way overused.
"no offense" however, IS offensive. |
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Meeeeow
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Yeah, it's like they know they are going to offend you but they have to say it anyways......no offence...but....why does it bother you so much? Just kidding!! I really am!! |
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bob h
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"Your opinion of me is none of my business."
When you can learn to live that way, you will take offense a lot less than you do now. At least I do. If they're just being rude, I say something like, "I resemble that remark". That kind of response tends to make them think about what they say to people. And when I still get upset, I need to learn how much I resemble that remark, because at least, to some degree, they are right.
The truth will set you free,
But first it may pi** you off. |
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mizz candii
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my friend says it all the time and i agree its getting really annoying! |
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woop woop
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i know like a few days ago this total ***** katie was like no ofence but your like the worst singer ever and mrs.___ is just being nice to you. so i asked a couple of my guyfriends to write some pretty nasty stuff about her in their bathroom and then with them wrote ***** all over her locker. also there is this hot guy uses a locker next to her so we stuffed her locker with tampons diped in red water so when he comes by and she opens it it'll all fall out on him. |
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Greanwitch
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Yeah...say back to them, no offense but you are a moran. Or something to that effect...love to hear some good come backs. I have to deal with some ignorant immature people and am looking for good come backs. |
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you're not alone |
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odandme
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The 'no offense' comment is rather overused.... and often misspelled. :-) |
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minty1
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i agree with you because that person means to offend you they say that just to defend themselves then they say the bad word instead of saying it right away. maybe they just want you to feel bad. |
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Professor Armitage
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No offense, but your mother wears combat boots. |
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messageboardjunkie
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Next time you hear that, just say:
"I've never understood why people say "No Offense" and follow it with a personal attack or sarcastic remark. How is that NOT supposed to be offensive???" |
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Joan H
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You are not alone--saying "no offense" is a passive aggressive way for people to let you know that they just insulted you. They should just say the negative and move on or just say nothing--what is truly gained by putting others down?---nothing. Gain something everyday and relate a positive comment to someone whenever you can. Rock on! =^..^= |
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missyofallainhouse
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I completely agree...and even better here in the South they say "Bless so and so's heart, but" and insert a snotty remark. |
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mishakatrina
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it doesnt bother me |
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Kevin M
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When a person says "no offense" all it does is create instant awareness of an offense that is about to take place. Just say what you have to say, don't f*ckin try to butter it up (which doesn't work by the way). |
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never again
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The old saying is: "They can dish it out.... but they can't take it" I've heard this as also being something about transferring behaviors or dumping. It's like an ego placebo by making someone else look smaller. Some might think that it's some form of construction criticism but if not properly used it really is just sarcasm at best. Many also seem to enjoy pulling other peoples chains to prove that they are unstable and should not be employed where they work or asking and answering questions on Yahoo Answers.
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mselegant1_99
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as soon as i hear a person say that, i get defensive. generally, they are going to give you 'their' personal opinion on something about you. i totally agree, i don't like it at all |
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kaseyday123
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EXACTLY.
"No offence", but those people need to think before they speak...
They make me angry... |
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flowerchild
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seriously. especially when they intend the comment to be offensive.
ex: No Offense, But you have no friends and you're weird.
people these days... |
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Hal J
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Well, no offense, but he's probably right, that's why they say that so u don't get mad |
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lifeinheavenforeever
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if you don't like a comment,then hit the thumbs down!!!
that is what it is there for.
God Bless |
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rudedogsdwweebs
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i hate it too they can just kiss my *** |
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Christine M
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Totally agree. People only say that when they know they're about to be offensive! |
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they call me Bindi
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well 'no offence' to you but people are just voicing a opinion |
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Jazmine
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Just say....no offence but you are rude.!!! |
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sweetgurl13069
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No offense, and hopefully none taken, but obviously it's not just you who is overly sensitive to that statement. |
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efel
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Spread the LOVE!
...respect their opinion......everybody got different perspective on different topic, dont be jugemental. People unique in their own way, thats what makes them beautiful! |
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Conquistador
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give them back what they dish out. see if they get the hint. No offense but how did you get so dumb? (thats an example) |
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â•£China ♥ Dollâ•Â
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Sometimes people really don't mean to offend you but they kind of have to in order to get their message across. |
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