Ok, My boyfriend said that he wants to french kiss me and I totally what him to?

The only thing is that I am woried I will get seriously sick like herpes, mono, or AIDS could any of these happen and which ones???...


The only thing is that I am woried I will get seriously sick like herpes, mono, or AIDS could any of these happen and which ones???



casselman81
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if you were going to get this from him ud already have it


mohammedal8
Yes alot can happen if he's not clean. tell him yeah it's hard to say these things to some one but it's better for you to be safe than sorry


Ian P
First of all, you cannot get AIDs from normal contact. AIDS is ONLY spread through blood and sexual transmission. I believe the same goes for herpes; however, if he did have herpes, you would know, it's very apparent! As far as mono goes, if he had it, then he wouldn't be kissing anyone any time soon, he'd be ill.
Go ahead and kiss him, you'll be fine!


ajennilynn
If he has mono or a cold sore (herpes) you could, but in order to catch HIV you would have to drink a liuter or 2 of spit that is infected....


niksie19
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nope. those are sexually transmitted diseases, and kissing is not sex.


malassa07
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someone sounds like a germaphobe!!!

if he has herpes on his lips you could possibly get it just by kissing not necessarily just by french kissing. it is possibly to get anything, like just getting sick in general. but if he's not sick, doesn't have aids and doesn't have any herpes then french kiss away my friend!! it's AWESOME


miss.priss21
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if he wants to and you want to, then go for it! if your boyfriend really had all of those diseases, the responsible thing to do would be to tell before you kissed, or maybe before you went out.
:O)


Chris S
you can not get aids

mono and herpes, if he has it, but if not no


Laura H
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Yes you could get sick, but only if he is already sick. You could catch any virus thats going around. But you cannot catch AIDS! If he has a cold sore on his mouth you could catch herpes, but only the kind that gives you cold sores. You could get mono if he has it, but that is rare. Most likely, nothing will happen and the worst that will is you catch a cold if he has one. Kiss him.


Nicole
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Herpes and AIDS are sexually transmitted diseases, meaning that in order for you to get them, he has to have sex with you. Just kiss him, there really aren't that many risks. People kiss each other all the time.


untilthebombs
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seriously?

you wont get aids for sure
your boyfriend would probably notice if he had herpes

and probably not mono, but you can deal with that one


shingan_mousou
lol. you can maybe get mono, possibly mouth herpes if he has a cold sore, definitely not AIDS. Just make out with him already!


beki
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you need to go throguh sex-ed or talk to a professional at planned parenthood. dont let anybody here freak you out by all the different answers you might get.

good luck.


[saving]me
well, you can only get one of those if he has them, and if he does i say dump him girl, your way better off


pkenzie14
mono is calle the kissing disease because it is contagious, so your boyfriend would have to have it.........You WONT GET AIDS FROM KISSING. and he would have to have herpes on his mouth for you to get them in your mouth,


starvans
okay, if you know anything about the AIDS virus, it is only spread throu sexual activity and sharing of blood, say drugs. but you can kiss someone on the lips or mouth and not get aids. but ask them what diseases they have or to get a doctor apointment and check. if they love you and want you they will.


Kermit4110
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As long as he is not sick when you do it or he has not been kissing lots of other girls you will be fine. If he has a fever blister on his lip, don't because you will get it but that will go away it won't cause real herpes. If he is HIV positive (Aids), you can only get it if he has had recent dental work. Judging by your question, I am guessing you are between the ages of 11 and 14. Your boyfriend should not have a risk of HIV at that age.
It is safe to kiss him, but only do it if you really want too. I was 16 before I had my first french kiss, my other boyfriends wanted too, but I wouldn't let them because I didn't feel comfortable.


Double H
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Ok, sounds like you are new to kissing...Unless he already has any of those diseases...you CAN NOT get them! so if he's clean, then go ahead! It's fun, and remember it doesn't always have to lead to anything else...just have fun!


American Made Latina
Mono I understand how you could get it but AIDS? Herpes?
just from kissing you get those from doing other things not french kissing and if you are having so many doubts well then don't kiss!


Jamie
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haha if you do it ALOT then you could get mono but a couple times isn't going to do anything.


DarkQ
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I think you can get herpes. But only if he has herpes. Chances are, if he has it you would know. Just do it.


Kelsea=]
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you can't freaking get AIDS from kissing..
you get PREGNANT!

If you don't want a baby.
Don't kiss!!!

Grow up.
Obviously you aren't old enough to be considering
"french kissing"
seeing as you don't understand the consequences.


anonymouse
You can't get AIDS from kissing. What you could get is HIV, if both of you have open sores in your mouths.

If you're genuinely worried, and if he has some kind of history, then tell him to get tested.

It sounds like you may be very young. Be careful and do your research before going any further.


Katie W
You only have a chance of getting those diseases by kissing him, if he's infected with them.

If he has a history of playing around with a lot of girls, there is a chance he's picked up something from one of them. AIDS is pretty darn unlikely, since it generally takes blood exposure -- so no biting.... Herpes or mono are more likely to be transmitted if he is infected. Mono is pretty contagious in close contact: if he's got it, you'd get it by sharing a drink, for example. If he doesn't currently seem sick, and hasn't been sharing drinks or kisses with other people in the last week or two, then it's pretty likely you're safe on that count though. Herpes -- well. If you're worried, you can ask him. If you've noticed cold sores on his lips, DEFINITELY ask.


~Bella~
1. You can't get AIDS from kissing
2. Ask him if he has/had mono or herpes.


ljhjgkj
you cant get AIDS from a kiss :-/


ஐAshley♥
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Why don't you just ask him if he has those things? If you already touched lips in anyway, theres a possibility.


Jeremy K
You could if he doesn't get tested first. Ask him if he has been tested for STDs and make sure he has. If he hasn't then he could give you herpes.


ricesoul
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your boyfriend has HERPES MONO AND AIDS?!!?!
that sux...


MadKat
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Sweetie....just kiss him.

If he is a cleanly person dont worry about it....