Is it safe to have a sex with aids patient by using condoms. Is it possible to have oral sex?

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medinams	Sorry but this is your girlfrined not your wife. Why would u want to take the chance in having sex w/ her and getting aids too? Why would u want to ruin your life like that. Im sorry call me harsh but i wouldnt want to "date" someone whodoes have aids. I would be scared to death to have sex w/ her too. Worry about yourself now. That stuff is not anything to mess around w/. If u r not completely serious about this girl and if u dont see yourself being w/ her for the rest of your lives then forget it. i think u need to **** back and think of this situation u r putting yourself in. if i were u get out while u can. DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Oraclekat	No matter what safety methods you use, it is a BIG risk. I personally wouldn't take the risk. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

somegirldc	its relatively safe, but not 100%. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

windsorbins	no...it is not safe...i am sorry for both of you... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lingsy81	Using condom is the best preventive way. Though, it's never 100% safe as it may tear or snap during the intercourse or used inproperly. Maybe the real question is, are you willing to take the chance? As some have said, it might not be your girlfriend's fault that she is HIV+. And therefore, you might felt guilty to blame it on her for having HIV. Consult to a counselor or pastor, whichever suits you. If you finally decide to have sex with your girlfriend and take the risk, make sure you use the condom properly, read and use it according to the instructions. Check with your doctor if possible. And be very very careful during the intercourse. No rough sex or even deep kissing. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

â•£China â™¥ Dollâ•	Yes, condoms make it safe to have sex with her but you have to be extremely careful since condoms are NOT 100%. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Luck charge	I work with HIV department. To what I know, it's ok unless some incidence occur, such as torn or loose away. Generally it's fine. Feel safe and enjoy your love with your special. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

HL2k	Condoms are 99.9% effective for two reasons 1) the company doesn't want to get sued or take responsibility 2) anything can happen, depends on how aggressive the disease is You need to sit down with your girlfriend and talk about this, prehaps it'd be safer not to. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

neo liebe	ok, first off... HIV isnt contracted by people who have premaridal sex (and i am not saying your gf is a slut.. cuz you can get it from open wounds as well) 2 how much do you love this girl? if you love her enough to marry her... well then i dont think condoms really matter. however 1-4 children will get HIV/AIDS from the mother at birth... so i pray that if you both get married that your children do not fall to this foul disease. and condoms do snap... so i would honestly look at how much you both love eachother, and then if you do enough... get married before you have sex/make love with her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Ms. Kitty to the rescue!	True. Condoms do not always prevent against pregnancy just like they cannot always protect against dieases. Its a hard call becuase you probably love your girlfriend however you need to protect yourself as well. Will you be at a higher increase of contacting HIV? Absolutly. Will you get? Probably not, but never say never especially if a condom breaks. Good luck Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

ScionGuy	No, condoms can break. It's unfortunate but you are never completely safe. Talk to her about it and find another way to express your love for her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

gyrl6	you may want to double up because condoms break honey. it's a messed up situation but i really wouldnt recommend it. good luck =) Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

The Princess	DOESN'T SOUND SAFE 2 ME. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chelsea_sherry_williams	first of all there is always risk of getting a disease condom or not secomd of all the only way not to get it by sex is not to have sex Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

GRUMPY	Ha ve you ever heard of someone getting pregnant because of a broken condom? If you answerred yes then I think you have your answer. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

alittlelost	it is never totally safe unless you want to risk getting aids. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Kaptain Kyle	No, condoms (as clearly stated on the box) cannot preved the spread of AIDS. The acutal AIDS virus is smaller than a sperm cell and much smaller than the mesh of the condom material. Don't do it. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jen	Definately don't do it. Why would you risk your life? Even if you had a condom on her bodily fluids would still be exposed to your body. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

smilingdon345	condom is safe.Myself if my girlfriend was infected if I loved her I would marry her and maybe die .YOUR QUESTION IS NOT DIFFICULT IT COMES DOWN TO HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER. Be creative. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lilgreenpea1	Condoms WILL NOT prevent the transmission of STDs. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

jeffrey' s lil angel	i agree with everyone else condoms are only 99.9% effective what if it breaks? i had two to break on me and luckly the guy was clean cause i m marrying him soon so please be careful Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dino4747	There was a television show a looonnnggg time ago with Groucho Marx called "You Bet Your Life"....that is exactly what you will be doing if you have sex with her. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

vampire	NO NO NO, If she is positive NO NO, condoms are still not 100% the rubber has microscopic tiny holes. Being a female she is more likley to have blood in her vaginal canal for many reasons. Show her you love her with hugs and tender touching. No SEX. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

duchess	This is no joke you need to talk to a doctor.Only they have all the answers ,but for your info nothing is 100%.This is your life we are talking about and maybe the chance of losing your life isn't worth the what 10 min.-1hour of fun... Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

lucky_boy	Why r u so willing to do suicide man? Forget it! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

daveduncan40	She would NOT want you to contract HIV. Condoms are not even close to 100% reliable. Using one with her is like Russian Roulette. Find other alternatives!! Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Mr. Bojangles	What the hell do you think, guy? Seriously. I'm not wanting to be rude but common. Have you ever heard of the Darwin Awards? Google it. Then, after you get AIDS, send in your story so you can get your award, too. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Davidness	Don't let your hormones control your survival instincts. You better not tap that girl if you know whats good for you. Contraceptives will help in a minimal way but why risk it? Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

chulapanama	I'm sorry for your girlfriend, may God be with her. I doubt if condoms are 100% effective in protecting you from what you want to do. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Adam	It's like Russian Rulette. It is possible to have protected sex with her and not transmite the disease... but it is very risky. Talk to a medical professional. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No

Dave	Though condoms reduce the risk of infection, NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING is 100% safe. If you decide to have a sexual relationship with your infected partner, be prepared for the potential consequences. Good luck. Was this answer helpful to you? Yes / No