Is it safe to have a sex with aids patient by using condoms. Is it possible to have oral sex?

My girlfriend is infected with HIV positive. I am scared to have a sex with her. Please help in this rerard...

medinams	Sorry but this is your girlfrined not your wife. Why would u want to take the chance in having sex w/ her and getting aids too? Why would u want to ruin your life like that. Im sorry call me harsh but i wouldnt want to "date" someone whodoes have aids. I would be scared to death to have sex w/ her too. Worry about yourself now. That stuff is not anything to mess around w/. If u r not completely serious about this girl and if u dont see yourself being w/ her for the rest of your lives then forget it. i think u need to **** back and think of this situation u r putting yourself in. if i were u get out while u can. DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!
Oraclekat	No matter what safety methods you use, it is a BIG risk. I personally wouldn't take the risk.
somegirldc	its relatively safe, but not 100%.
windsorbins	no...it is not safe...i am sorry for both of you...
lingsy81	Using condom is the best preventive way. Though, it's never 100% safe as it may tear or snap during the intercourse or used inproperly. Maybe the real question is, are you willing to take the chance? As some have said, it might not be your girlfriend's fault that she is HIV+. And therefore, you might felt guilty to blame it on her for having HIV. Consult to a counselor or pastor, whichever suits you. If you finally decide to have sex with your girlfriend and take the risk, make sure you use the condom properly, read and use it according to the instructions. Check with your doctor if possible. And be very very careful during the intercourse. No rough sex or even deep kissing.
â•£China ♥ Dollâ•Â	Yes, condoms make it safe to have sex with her but you have to be extremely careful since condoms are NOT 100%.
Luck charge	I work with HIV department. To what I know, it's ok unless some incidence occur, such as torn or loose away. Generally it's fine. Feel safe and enjoy your love with your special.
HL2k	Condoms are 99.9% effective for two reasons 1) the company doesn't want to get sued or take responsibility 2) anything can happen, depends on how aggressive the disease is You need to sit down with your girlfriend and talk about this, prehaps it'd be safer not to.
neo liebe	ok, first off... HIV isnt contracted by people who have premaridal sex (and i am not saying your gf is a slut.. cuz you can get it from open wounds as well) 2 how much do you love this girl? if you love her enough to marry her... well then i dont think condoms really matter. however 1-4 children will get HIV/AIDS from the mother at birth... so i pray that if you both get married that your children do not fall to this foul disease. and condoms do snap... so i would honestly look at how much you both love eachother, and then if you do enough... get married before you have sex/make love with her.
Ms. Kitty to the rescue!	True. Condoms do not always prevent against pregnancy just like they cannot always protect against dieases. Its a hard call becuase you probably love your girlfriend however you need to protect yourself as well. Will you be at a higher increase of contacting HIV? Absolutly. Will you get? Probably not, but never say never especially if a condom breaks. Good luck
ScionGuy	No, condoms can break. It's unfortunate but you are never completely safe. Talk to her about it and find another way to express your love for her.
gyrl6	you may want to double up because condoms break honey. it's a messed up situation but i really wouldnt recommend it. good luck =)
The Princess	DOESN'T SOUND SAFE 2 ME.
chelsea_sherry_williams	first of all there is always risk of getting a disease condom or not secomd of all the only way not to get it by sex is not to have sex
GRUMPY	Ha ve you ever heard of someone getting pregnant because of a broken condom? If you answerred yes then I think you have your answer.
alittlelost	it is never totally safe unless you want to risk getting aids.
Kaptain Kyle	No, condoms (as clearly stated on the box) cannot preved the spread of AIDS. The acutal AIDS virus is smaller than a sperm cell and much smaller than the mesh of the condom material. Don't do it.
jen	Definately don't do it. Why would you risk your life? Even if you had a condom on her bodily fluids would still be exposed to your body.
smilingdon345	condom is safe.Myself if my girlfriend was infected if I loved her I would marry her and maybe die .YOUR QUESTION IS NOT DIFFICULT IT COMES DOWN TO HOW MUCH YOU LOVE HER. Be creative.
lilgreenpea1	Condoms WILL NOT prevent the transmission of STDs.
jeffrey' s lil angel	i agree with everyone else condoms are only 99.9% effective what if it breaks? i had two to break on me and luckly the guy was clean cause i m marrying him soon so please be careful
Dino4747	There was a television show a looonnnggg time ago with Groucho Marx called "You Bet Your Life"....that is exactly what you will be doing if you have sex with her.
vampire	NO NO NO, If she is positive NO NO, condoms are still not 100% the rubber has microscopic tiny holes. Being a female she is more likley to have blood in her vaginal canal for many reasons. Show her you love her with hugs and tender touching. No SEX.
duchess	This is no joke you need to talk to a doctor.Only they have all the answers ,but for your info nothing is 100%.This is your life we are talking about and maybe the chance of losing your life isn't worth the what 10 min.-1hour of fun...
lucky_boy	Why r u so willing to do suicide man? Forget it!
daveduncan40	She would NOT want you to contract HIV. Condoms are not even close to 100% reliable. Using one with her is like Russian Roulette. Find other alternatives!!
Mr. Bojangles	What the hell do you think, guy? Seriously. I'm not wanting to be rude but common. Have you ever heard of the Darwin Awards? Google it. Then, after you get AIDS, send in your story so you can get your award, too.
Davidness	Don't let your hormones control your survival instincts. You better not tap that girl if you know whats good for you. Contraceptives will help in a minimal way but why risk it?
chulapanama	I'm sorry for your girlfriend, may God be with her. I doubt if condoms are 100% effective in protecting you from what you want to do.
Adam	It's like Russian Rulette. It is possible to have protected sex with her and not transmite the disease... but it is very risky. Talk to a medical professional.
Dave	Though condoms reduce the risk of infection, NOTHING, and I mean NOTHING is 100% safe. If you decide to have a sexual relationship with your infected partner, be prepared for the potential consequences. Good luck.